So, recently I read a myTake called ''Tips For Dating A Feminist''. And the overwhelming reaction from the male community was essentialy 'Why the heck would I want to do that?'
Obviously, there was a pretty fierce backlash from the Feminist community on here about that. So let me just sum some things up for y'all using the 'Tips' from the other post on dating a feminist.
If I use Quotation marks and Italic text, I am directly quoting that take ^
Lets just get this cleared up. There is no such thing as having a 'Conversation' as any form of self respecting male to a Feminist. This so called 'Conversation', Would be nothing more than a one sided subjected rant towards the male, that completely undermines him simply because of the fact he was born with a Disco stick.
Despite what feminists believe, No male with even the slightest form of Dignity, would want to sit through a feminist rant and be on the recieving end to it, let alone wake up everyday having to face it. And the worst part is, everything the guy would say, would IMMEDIATELY be challenged by the chick until she was the Defined 'Winner' of that Discussion.
2) "Your Relationship With Other Women"
We all know how this one would work out ? This is basically a way of saying 'If you ever do anything that has undermined the female race or ever will, your ass is gone''. Sure, Its important to be nice to people, Regardless of their sex, But, Living in fear of ever being disrespectful of a female regardless of the reasons ? Whilst its perfectly okay for Feminist chick to dislike men at her content ?... Seems fair.
3) "The Bill"
This one made me laugh, Im going to directly qoute the other post here
''She won't automatically assume that you've got the bill, but you should at least offer. And if anything, you'll guys at least "go Dutch" and split the bill. And paying for her meal doesn't mean she owes you anything or that there should be strings attached.''
Oh.... So, I see all that 'Equal Rights' Malarkey only suits the chick when its convenient huh?... Nice....
4) "Fighting her battles"
Listen here, I understand, You want to stick up for yourself, And thats cool as heck, Dont get me wrong, I understand that, You are no Damsel in Distress, You are an Independent human being, But damn dude, If someone you care about is in a Situation, You are going do directly refuse our support purely over the fact we have different Genitals to you? Regardless of how much we care for you ?...
What's the point of being in a Relationship if you dont respect them enough to ask for their support ?
5) "Dont try to control her"
Lets get something clear here, As soon as a Feminist says ''Don't try to control me'', Is essentially just her saying ''Don't stop be from being bitchy towards men''. Once again. No guy, Who has even the faintest bit of sanity, Would EVER want to sit down in a Discussion, About how terrible he is just because he's a guy, And all the terrible things that guys do.
And, If you're being a complete Biatch, And acting massively out of line, Were just suppose to sit back and take it ?... Sounds like a healthy relationship -_-.
6) "She's A Boss"
''Just because she goes for what she wants or is assertive and determined that doesn't make her a "bitch," she's a boss!''
No sweetheart, I'm afraid not. You see, Yes, Its cool that women do call the shots just as much as their male partner, But what you're saying is, ''Im the boss''. There is nothing in that, That is at all 'Equal Rights', Thats actively oppressing the male in the relationship.
And once again, I can tell you, There isn't a single male on this planet with any shread of respect for himself who would put up with being Biatched around like that.
7) "Miss Independent"
''You won't have to do everything for her. Yeah she will need you, but she can take care of herself.''
Uhm.... I'm sorry, But...... That, Is completely contradictory towards the 3 Previous points. Do we help her or not !? Then we get yelled at and a big hate speach against men and how incompetent we are for not knowing the answer to my question just then? pfft... No thanks....
If you're so 'Independent' and can take care of yourself so good, Why even date a guy in the first place ? Sounds to me like you would be better dating another Feminist as they are so 'Superior' to the common male? They seem to be much more powerful and stronger mentality then men according to your posts?
8) "Sexist Jokes"
''Don't automatically ask her, "So do you hate men?" Sexist jokes are a definite no no! You'll either have to give them up or say them when she's not around, but she better not find out!''
First off, If she's a self asserting feminist, I wouldn't even need to ask that question.
Secondly, Do you really think, If we were the type of person to make jokes about Feminism, We would ever date one ?..... Yeah... thought not. I think the fear of being Castrated by your own partner would scare us out of ever making a joke....
But, I'm assuming jokes about men are completely A-O-Kay ?....There's those 'Equal Rights' again...
9) Support Her Dreams And Goals
''If she is a feminist she will have likely had goals and dreams before you came along. Take interest in her career and dreams and encourage and support her. Better yet, be a power couple.''
Wait, I thought we weren't suppose to get involved ? you didn't need us remember ? you guys were the boss ? you could support yourself ? you didn't want us to fight your battles ?
Make up your damn mind, You can't pick and choose when you want us to support you. And, Once again, What mentally insane guy, Would actively help you achieve your goals of discrediting his own gender?
10) Still Be A Gentleman
Be a gentleman !? BE A GENTLEMAN !?. Do you know what Gentleman even means !? Let me refresh your memory.
'Noun - Gentleman - a chivalrous, courteous, or honorable man.'
Now, I don't know if you are aware, but, according to the rules you have stated above sweetheart, the type of man who will meat those rules, is not 'Chivalrous, Courteous or Honorable'.
He will be nothing more, Than a Cowardly sissy, Who has been so massively Immasculated, He is willing to sit down, And gladly listen to, And particpate in arguments that are directly insultive to himself.
The type of man who will go for a Feminist, Is no 'Man', He is rather, A women trapped within a mans body.
Honestly, If you are a Feminist, You cannot expect any man, who is more man than woman, To ever want you. Its impossible. What guy would do that to himself !?
Seriously, Stick to dating chicks. You seem to have a lot more respect and in common with them.
I love how at the end of the take it said this ''Remember, just because she is a feminist that does not mean she is from another planet. At the end of the day, she just wants to be treated as an equal with respect and understanding. You should be treating everyone with respect and understanding anyways!''
''At the end of the day, She just wants to be treated as an equal with respect and understanding''.
But, Its cool for her to bitch about guys, Not pay bills, be the boss in relationships and have near complete supremacy in the relationship over her male partner, And if the male denies to any of these, he's nothing more than a pig ?..... Sure..... The entire belief that a Feminist can date a self respecting gentlemen, Is so hypocrital and laughable against its own arguments... i mean... there is no words for it xD.
It wouldn't even be a Relationship, It would be a one sided debate involving the same two people where the female would ALWAYS have to win.
Anyway, Have a lovely evening anyone, and I hope you enjoyed myTake