I <3 dating around for fun and being with all different kinds of guys. But for the guys I want to have a serious future with? I have to be with someone who I'll actually be happy with. So he needs to:
I can't live with an unstable guy who has mood swings or loses self control. I have people like that in my family and I never want to have to live with it again, let alone be committed.
Have A Stable Income
The economy can be hard for a lot of people, and it hasn't been easy for me either. But for a longterm relationship I don't want to be supporting him.
Be $ Smart Already
I don't want to have to explain all the different laws and consequences of money to him. He should already know how the divorce laws work. And how to manage money and budget. I don't want a naive guy who can be taken advantage of by people.
None of the guys in my age range have any of these traits, or at least not all three. So I haven't had a longterm boyfriend yet ):