5 Personality Traits I Find Hot In A Guy

[Anonymous]

There seem to be a few posts about what girls find physically attractive in guys (I've wrote one myself) but I'd like to tell you what I like in a guys personality.

1) Kindness

There is nothing hotter than a guy who is genuinely kind hearted.

2) Honesty

Honesty is one of the cutest qualities a guy can attain.

3) Sarcasm

Sarcasm is one of a few things I personally find very cute.

4) Being A Lone Wolf

I personally tend to love guys who don't fall in with the crowd and are cool in their own solitude.

5) Bad Taste In Music

As someone with lots of musical influences, somehow I find it adorable when a guy is clueless about music culture and only knows of popular music.

*But this is all just my personal opinion and does not speak for women as a whole.

[ThatJarHead]

I can't say agree with the list but tbh if a guy wrote this kind of thing about women he'd get shit tonnes of back lash. Good take though. Thanks for your opinion on the subject matter. Also why do all the guys in your pictures look like Highschool boys? They look like the belong in one direction.

[ginny_weasley]

Great my take. Now cue the incoming, bitter guys who say none of this matters if the guy isn't hot.

[myTake Owner]

Lol right?

[Anonymous]

Women want a man who’s ambitious, an achiever, whose successful both professionally and financially… but one who’s not materialistic.
... a man who is solid, steady, consistent and reliable… but who’s fun, unpredictable and spontaneous.
... strong-willed, decisive man who takes a stand and doesn't waver, as long as he's flexible, open-minded and can admit when he's wrong
... a realist who’s romantic
... serious but playful
... confident but humble
... horny yet faithful
... career driven but family-oriented.
... smart but not nerdy
…caring but not needy
…affectionate but not clingy
…protective but not possessive
…emotional but not neurotic
…funny but not a clown
…dominant but not domineering
…in control but not controlling.
... strong but sensitive
... tough but tender
... masculine but gentle
... and manly but vulnerable.

[Opinion Owner]

Ladies I understand the truth is sometimes hard to hear, but you can see how little we understand your kind beyond tendencies in behavior.

[Tanuron]

I kinda doubt 4 and 5 could ever be the same person. Lone wolf not going with the crowd, while nr 5 obviously do, but anyways. Nice that Honesty and kindness made the list at least.

[Anonymous]

Nice but sadly your traits most women don't like. 1) Kindness. Studies show women attraction does not increase by him being a kind person. 2) Honesty- Women do not really want the truth just their own version of what they believe to be the truth for a man.

[Opinion Owner]

Also most women like social status. Being a lone wolf means low social status.

[Infynis]

I fit all 5 of these, particularly #5, which was a bit of a problem in my last relationship. Glad it can be good too!

[Lilybanu]

Honestly is the most important thing for me, then intelligence and smartness, and to me music is one of factors that shows a guys personality... I like to learn from him, i like a man who is motivating, understanding,

[ProbablyTooMature]

I hate popular music and only listen to music that is genuinely good... so I guess I have 4/5. =P

[Raymond_Reddington]

And don't forget number 6!
6) they must all be super hot.
Cuz every guy in those picture is super hot.

[myTake Owner]

Oo so you're interested in guys too! Wanna be my G. B. F?

[Raymond_Reddington]

No thank you. I might be gay, but that doesn't mean I wanna be friends with just any stranger. Plus it seemed like you were trying to insult me by calling me gay. People who still do that are pathetic in my eyes.

[LadyTerror]

The title clearly says "personality traits". That's a physical trait.

[Raymond_Reddington]

@LadyTerror if those guys aren't hot, all those personality treats don't even matter.

[LadyTerror]

And how is that even relevant?

[Raymond_Reddington]

@LadyTerror are you really so dumb that you can't See that?

[LadyTerror]

I'm saying that it's obvious that they need to be hot. So this isn't really news. And even if you had to mention it, it wouldn't be "number 6" since this take is only a list of personality traits.

[Raymond_Reddington]

@LadyTerror call it a bonus then

[LadyTerror]

I guess that works

[Browneye57]

So, you're gonna invent the perfect guy eh?
Another one that thinks she can decide how a guy should be. It ain't happenin' babe!

[myTake Owner]

"Babe", this is my preference in a guy, not how I think every man should be.

But regardless of that, what does a 60 year old mans opinion on dating matter anyway?

[Browneye57]

Cuz, BTDT. You like to discount 60 YO people, but I've likely forgotten more than you know. :)
We could go the other way... why are under-20's so darn inexperienced. (shrug)

If you don't want an answer then don't post a question. Dealeo?

[myTake Owner]

You didn't answer the question, also "dealeo" isn't really helping you come across any younger.

[Browneye57]

And you lack of life experience doesn't help you come across any older or mature. You're still just a kid with hardly a clue.

[WeeGeeTheSecond]

I think we would be a good couple... well... except for the fact that i am also a music nerd

[Anonymous]

We are talking about personalities and not looks. Looks are important up to a point. He must have a sense of humour (really important), kindness, honesty and sensitivity (and a nice wanger).

[Anonymous]

I don't want to be the twat who says he has all of those traits, but I have all of those traits :p

[GingerGuy]

You'd love me then lol. Except for the bad taste in music. I love music.

[RedVulcan]

Well, in my humble af opinion those 5 describe me pretty well :)

[Anonymous]

A guy who is not afraid to be silly is really sexy.

[AleDeEurope]

Same goes for girls :P
Not being afraid to be silly shows that you're not afraid to be natural, and that's extremely sexy.

[Unit1]

You have a good taste in attractive personalities in guys but I think Number 5 is weird.

[Zevrick]

If you find hot all these personality traits, why are all pictures you posted from this kind of good-looking guys?

[Anonymous]

Score 4/5. Last one is debatable and I'm popular with girls. However, doesn't affect the way I want for the girl I like :P

[Zzzzzz111]

I got all of those , didn't know some girls look for them

[Alex88F]

you described all my qualities but it is unlikely i will ever be liked for those things

[Anonymous]

All this only if he is hot or good looking.. Right?