6 Reasons Why I'll Never Date a Guy Who Doesn't Want Kids (Page 2)
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You could have just said, "I won't date a guy who doesn't want kids because I do want kids".
really it's one reason and not postworthy material, probably should have just waited for the question of "what's a dealbreaker for you" to come up again.
But hey, it doesn't give you as much meaningless attention and pseudovalidation as making your own stupid fucking mytake about it.
I've gotta ask though when would this convo ever come up in a realashionship
@19magic Well once it came up the morning of our first night together. But that is not why it didn't last long.
Lol First is not true cos there are guys that dont like way world is and dotn think life is something enjoyable and beautiful so why would i want to bring someone to this world to "suffer" and this is not mentality of unkind person its probably more kind and empatic than almost everyone.
Why would that he dont like kids or that he is not happier and kinder when he is amoungh kids? That he is not enjoying their sillines...
6. Really? It all depends on person...
1 Reason Why I'd Be Happy to Date a Guy Who Doesn't Want Kids: I fucking hate kids.
Irony?
Yeah, me too! Been one, fucking hated it.
@Unit1 I honestly hate most people my age.
Gotcha. I get the oddest reactions from kids. They'll (for the most part) stop whatever they're doing and just look at me "funny." It's actually quite humorous. I think I get that reaction because I'm a big kid at heart (cartoon voices come out in the morning and / or if I'm sleep deprived).
This is why I love to hook-up with twats my age and let them think it's "leading somewhere." I string them along for a few months of sex, then dump them over something silly that I blow out of proportion. Haha. Fuck these cunts. Hit that Wall. Enjoy your cats, cause you ain't getting a baby from MY nutsack!
LOL most G@Gers don't want children
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But most of them are virgins too lol. Can't take them seriously.
Lmfaooo
https://i.imgur.com/JqwMvSa.png
@ThisDudeHere lmaoo
Then you are not taking me seriously.
@Unit1 those who whine about a lot of things on internet but can't do shit irl.
Doesn't involve every virgin. Only a few.
I am a guy who doesn't want kids, and my response to you is... awesome Take. Congratulations on knowing who you are and what you want in life. I hope you have a wonderful family. I am sure you will.
God bless you! People need to have children, and people need to remain committed in their relationships. Too many children are born with only one parent around. It is a delusion that escaping marriage will give you freedom to be truly happy. The truth is, our grandparents were much better at being happy.
I think otherwise, if someone don't ever want children then either sterilize or keep using contraception. Better to be responsible about it than having an unplanned for pregnancy or an unexpected pre
@JudgmentDay Better to have a society that forces people to be responsible. Only half a century ago you couldn't just have a child out of wedlock, or get a divorce at a whim. You could, legally, but society frowned upon it. I think we need to restore a value system in society that will force people to act morally even when they are too weak or confused to do it on their own. Liberalism puts too much faith in the individual. The reality is that we need the support from society. Once everyone is left to do whatever they want, in the long run, most people will end up doing stupid things and failing to lead a truly fulfilled and moral life.
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As long as you don't meant that a society that forces people to reproduce and procreate when they absolutely don't want to. Having children aren't for everyone. It is a "want" not a "need".
If you want the real truth, it's "emptiness", everyone and everything will eventually cease to exist, and that all births will inevitably lead to deaths. But we procreate to always try and deny the possibility of extinction and yet we are only temporary, very vulnerable and very fragile no matter what we do. if people marry for the right reason and marry because they are certain they are right for each other, then great, I'm sure they'll stay together no matter what happens. Otherwise if they have a really bad and nasty split or divorce, guess who pays the ultimate price for their failures? That's right, their children. It would probably be best of both parties made sure they are "right" for each other before rushing and jumping on the bandwagon and follow the crowd of blindly
follow the crowd blindly of having kids just because someone else such as their co-workers, friends, other family members and relatives without having the proper understanding that it's a serious commitment, that it requires the proper planning and readiness and willingness of both parents to work together and provide the best possible environment for their children to thrive and grow up in.
Thinking about memories of my boyfriend and how attentive he is in bed when he visits. How gentle he is. And how much he wants kids. <3 gentle guys are the best
1 and 6 are not true. Psychological inquiry isn't (and shouldn't be) based on personal observations.
I think people should stop reproducing and walk hand-in-hand into extinction. We've done nothing but destroy the planet and everything good in it.
If I wanted to procreate (which I don't), I'd have China's two-maximum policy for having biological kids.
I similar once I had realized the truth. I believe humans are inherently evil for most part and is very easy to tempt and corrupt no matter what. It is entirely in our very nature to destroy ourselves, our world and everything else within it. The more balance we create or even try and create the MORE UNBALANCE that there is!
There's also a total absence of fairness or justice in this world. The truth is that it's also an illusion or delusion and that those that have the authority and hold the power or positions of power and great wealth and fortune easily have the law and judges on their side. The whole fucking system is corrupted badly and rigged where everyone at the top, the elite ruling class are like the king and queens on a chessboard and everybody else like you and me the commoners, regular people or "peasants" are just a bunch of pawns on the chessboard. We regular common people are really just expendable to them, and we serve them because they are the system.
@JudgmentDay We meet again! Well said, I agree with everything you said 👌👏
I'm 23 and still adamantly opposed to having kids, not every guy is cut out for it I just don't like kids and not a family man. And yes I've actually babysat some kids, I just don't see the hype.
Jim not wanting kids is enough reason s for me an ultimate deal breaker. It would suck to find someone you love and feel connected with only to find out he has no interest in raising a family.
i respect that its your choice
but to me kids can go to hell
I can't handle the extra work load or cost and i need to get use to a relation ship first.
It's not so much if i want them or not it's just seems irresponsible if i was in a stable and strong relationship and some one bought me a wining Loto ticket or I inherited a lot I think i would want to!
Maybe start a family software development business?
Now though I don't it just seems irresponsible.
excellent take!!! a guy who doesn't want kid is a deal breaker to me too
Me too, even tho not gonna have kids in at least 10 years
I only need one reason to not date girls who don't want kids.
Because I want kids.
Init lol
Just because a guy doesn't want to have kids doesn't automatically mean he's a selfish, unkind person. Not everyone is meant to be a parent and kids are difficult to put up with.
I completely agree with you. Especially number two. I worked at a daycare for 4 years and their spirits are always so uplifting. They're so naive and aren't aware of all the bad in the world yet.
All of these are true - generally speaking, for the majority. =)
Yup, I agree.