So he likes to hug me a lot and put his arms around me which makes me uncomfortable which Ik is lame as fuck. And he tries to touch my boobs which I'm really self concouse of cause there so big and everyone stares at them. And he tries to touch my butt which I hate cause I don't have any ass which is embarrassing. So pretty much I have no self asteem. How do I be more comfortable?
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Your boyfriend should respect you enough that he does not paw at you and you should tell him this directly and forcefully. Maybe he's young and immature, so teach him better behavior. Don't let yourself be his toy. If he continues the touchyfeely, tell him that's it and find another boyfriend. You deserve respect.
Girls with nice breasts are said to have strong self-esteem, but this guy's oafish behavior may be diminishing your self-respect. I haven't seen your ass, but if it's slim that should add to your personal appeal, not detract from it.
Maybe the problem is not just your boyfriend but your self-esteem. We all go through this period of questioning our own self worth. If you don't feel good about yourself, aim at little challenges, read a book, learn something new, exercise, get your hair done in a salon, try new clothes (yes but cash is short). Learn to play tennis, learn to meditate. What little skill could you learn to make yourself a better person? It need not be a great achievement, but head in that direction.
You're off to a good start since you have intelligently identified something in your life you want to change, so good for you.1