I've been seeing a guy for a few months. Things are great. We get along and have a lot in common. We're just happy to be around each other. He knows how I feel about him but he hasn't just come and said he feels the same. But he will ask me if I'm sleeping with other guys or seeing other guys and even tease me about it. I'm not but he doesn't answer me when I ask him back. He calls me his girlfriend sometimes and his friend kept calling me his girlfriend and he was fine with it. He's told me I'm different than other girls his met. He also tells me everything about himself. Good and bad. He'll spend the night and then cook me breakfast the next morning. How can I go about telling him I want more with out freaking him out?
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Okay he's an a**hole - it's called HAVING HIS CAKE AND EATING IT TOO. You don't need this crap. Cut off the sex immediately until YOU KNOW AND HE TELLS YOU that you are the ONLY ONE. You don't need to be second best and put up with this nonsense. All men want this sort of arrangement, to be able to get sex without committing, show him it's not gonna be like that. If not, all he will do is keep on taking sex and then will fall for someone else and leave you.
Him asking you is just him being GUILTY - he's is doing it probably so that's why he suspects you are.1
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