Dating is a much bigger hassle for men than women.
To start with, I just HATE the fact that men are ALWAYS expected to make the first move, in spite of so many changes in gender roles over the years. Even if I do this, I need to brace for loads of rejections (because I haven't got the looks of Tom Cruise or the wealth of Bill Gates). If I'm fortunate enough to get a 'yes' from a woman after several attempts, even then I need to be constantly on my toes to keep her interested in me. Its a well know fact that its much easier for a woman to get a boyfriend, than a man to get a girlfriend. So if she loses interest in me, she'd dump and easily find someone else soon ( because several men are usually waiting to ask a woman out). But for me, it would take a LONG time to recover. Also, I'm the kind of guy who'd prefer to eventually marry and have kids with the woman I date, and I'm not interested in casual dating or one-night stands. I'm quite sure most women wouldn't like this.
So you see, me trying to date is likely to cause more problems than happiness, so I'd rather avoid it. This is just my point of view, though. I'm not a pessimist, I'm just a realist.
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Dating is a fairly double edged sword. It can bring lots of happiness and fulfillment, but only with the right person. I've had my share of hassle relationships, but I've also had some that I wish never had to end.
With the right person, things come naturally, you're on the same wavelength, and neither one of you wants to play games. When that happens a wonderful relationship can come about. But if you don't have that and you're trying to force it at all, then dating isn't really worth it.
I think it's all jumping through hoops and such else if you're with someone who isn't right for you. If the two of you don't gel then it's going to take a lot of doing things you wouldn't normally do. But when you find someone you do gel with, then it's easy, someone you can be comfortable and talk and laugh about all sorts of things with. I hate to sound so cheesy, but if it's meant to be, then it will be.
No I don't think its worth it.
Too much drama. And if it leads to a relationship oh God. Even more drama and also heartbreaks and whatnot. Better off being alone, thank you very much :P
Not if you take things in a slow and relaxed manner and simply become friends with a guy before you jump into a relationship with him.
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Mmm yea it is being an experienced 38 yr. Old and on 2 marriages Along with a 10 yr. Relationship... date to find the woman for you the mire you play it'll vount as baggage in the future relationship that means the most... curiosity?'s will come how many and who and being in a truthful relationship you tell the truth and problems may arise
Dating is not worth the hassle. It is particularly difficult for men who almost never see any valuable result for what is almost lottery ticket odds of anything good happening in exchange for their time, money, and efforts. Women's standards and expectations are impossible.
Nothing doing or achieving is ever easy dude obstacles and road blocks. Test how much you want something and how hard your willing to work for it just like competition breeds excellence.
It is the means to an end, that is to find the right mate to create children with.
If you don't want children, you should not date anyone.
Every other reason is modern liberal bullshit introduced to you by the media.I think it is. Eventually I just stopped trying and let girls come to me.
It is if you find someone special in the end. But yes it does seem like a waste of time.
I agree, more stressed and annoyed when dating than when not.
I mean, you can always switch to an Asian chick like so many other white guys do
confidence and mental hardiness...thats what it all comes down to.
I hate dating, so no. But it seems necessary to get to know someone.
It can be a bit of a hassle but it can really pay off big time👏
It is when you finally find someone enjoyable.
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