So I met this guy, online for a month now. We've been trying to date earlier, but I had been busy. Last night, we decided to date. we were not hungry (true), so I asked him, where should we go and he told me his home (I asked myself, was I being easy?), on our way to his home (it took 15 to 30 mins ), we had some lovely conversation. He is a tough guy, great body, not bulky, just the right tough with a great face. I am a chubby girl with massive bussoms and buttocks (being honest), but I still fit s size clothing and m size. lets just say, I am huggable, not obese. he told me, I am hot. I told him, I am chubby and he said, so what, you're still hot. he told me, I could touch his abs and muscles in his bed room ( I felt like he likes me for my body?). so when we reached his home, we hugged, kiss and the next thing you know we were having sex or make love as he calls it. he played my favorite song, was being sweet the whole time. touched my face while he sings a very romantic song in his car (weird). I can't help but notice if he's being a sweet talker? during our car ride, we talked a lot about our interests, likes, hobbies, and such, I feel fireworks the whole time we were together, honestly. He asked me, if I would want to make love to him again next time, I told him next weekend, flirtatiously. we were flirting each other a lot. (at that point I felt like I don't think he'd consider me as gf material, rather just for sex?) we had real emotional connection, we stared at each other and smiles a lot. I don't know if he feels the same thing. before I went out of his car, when we reached my home, he shook my hand in a style where guys would do to their close friends. with the styles and such? awkward. so when he reached his home, last night, he texted me that he reached home. then 30 mins later, I texted him, I just finished showering. till then he has not texted me. so this morning, I texted him "last night was good exercise, I am glowing today. have a great day! ;)".
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You had sex with a guy 7 years older than you and on the first date lolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololol
Don't expect this to go far.
At 26 years old if you're going for 19 yr olds it's either cause
A) You're just looking for sex and you know younger girls are usually easier ( a lot of girls have a thing for older guys)
B) You're probably not really going anywhere in life so you can't get a girl your own age/maturity level so you're going for a younger girl who's too inexperienced in life to truly see how much of a loser you are. Getting her from young.
You seemed like a skip-the-dinner-and-take-her-straight-to-the-bedroom-for-a-one-night-stand typa girl to this guy.
Moral of the story: At 19 I don't think you should be dating people in their late 20s and having high hopes for how the relationship will turn out, especially people you meet online.3
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