A friend of mine asked me out the other day and I had to say no. I knew that I wasn't attracted to him but I didn't really know why. I racked my brain and I'm pretty sure it's only because he's the same height as me. He's hot and we get along great but I want a guy who makes me feel safes and protected, you know? I'm short myself (5'4), so I want someone at least a few inches taller and he's only the same height as me. I know that it isn't something that he can control but i can't really control what I'm attracted to either.
- No, it's a just reason. I feel the same.33% (4)50% (6)42% (10)Vote
- No, it's a just reason., but I don't feel the same.42% (5)8% (1)25% (6)Vote
- Yes, that's bad, he can't control it25% (3)42% (5)33% (8)Vote
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if you don't find him attractive then don't feel guilty about that. I don't have a problem with dating a guy a couple inches shorter than me but I wouldn't date a guy who was like 5'1. I know they can't help it but I can't help not finding them attractive.
no guy would lose sleep over rejecting you if he didn't like one of your features. think about that0