Girl your silly. lol if you want to be with a attractive guy then go after him. Why wait. The only ones with balls are the unattractive ones (or the sexy players) so step out of your comfort zone.
Whats holding you back. You are ready so put yourself out there. Flirt with the cute ones. Dont hold back. And Dont feel bad cause your judging guys on looks. They do it to us all the time!!!
I attract the complete opposite the cute ass holes. And they like more aggressive girls (not to aggressive). Cause they are more afraid of rejection and tend to be confident but unsure of themselves. They like Girls that know what they want and have a inner beauty as well. It gives them a sense of security. A girl who can make them smile.
The cute ones are usually shy. So if you a talker. Strike up some conversation with one. Compliment his shoes. It'll open doors. They require way more attention too so if you are ready to be a mother figure and smother them with love and affection. They will never leave your side lol.
That's just my opinion. Don't go jumping in their face tho. Just do enough.😊
It's all up to you sister and what you want.
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Look I totally get this... I also get compliments on my looks. ( I don't think I'm all that pretty) But if there's anything I've learned it's that guys don't go for ONLY looks. If he does, than trust me, he will NOT make a good boyfriend. See, guys barely approach me because I don't talk to them (I don't have the guts) I would suggest to build a good friendship with someone your interested in and slowly make it something more.
I don't need to read the entire post, nor do I want to, the question itself is enough " The typical attractive girl dilemma", maybe people see through your exterior to the arrogant and and vein person underneath, maybe the guys you consider attractive are just as vein as you and only see themselves. Get Over Yourself, honestly.
I kinda get were ur coming from lv been told im attractive. If i get the impression a chick is chasing me because they want a nice lookin boy toy its a nice fast way to make me loose intrest. If ur not interested in gettin to know me u don't get the outside. There ar times i think it would be good to be a little less attractive. Ill end this by sayin my most attractive xs were but ugly on the outside. But to die for on the inside. If ur not shalow it won't matter love will make the other person beautiful.
Being an attractive girl, you're going to get sexual attention from all sorts of men.
You don't really have a way of filtering that.
The kicker is that a highly attractive man does not have a reason to go out of his way to try and approach an attractive girl.
Usually the interactions just kind of happen or he gets approached.
But the thirst isn't very real for him. He's generally pretty well-quenched.
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its probably because you aren't as attractive as you think you are... guys tend to go after every girl in general , because thats how guys are and the fact that you can't even get one "hot" guy is not a good sign. maybe you should give some of the average guys a second chance lmfao , because it seems that is all your getting. pluus dont be soo shallow , you are probably not giving them a shot , because you are too focused on their looks.
Its because of insecurity. Im not saying you aren't as pretty as you think you are, but im saying you dont actually think you're as pretty as you want to be. You aren't secure in the fact that you're gorgeous, because if you were you would be ok with dating an average dude. But you need a hot dude so that you can be confident that you're hot enough to get a hot guy.
When you lose your insecurity, you will just straight up know that you're hot. You won't tether the quality of men you get with how attractive you are.
I have this issue, a lot of fuglyish girls want to be me, but I am opposed because I feel like if I get with someone fugly, that thats my range. I need to stop seeing a range and be ok with getting with someone fugly.Nothing wrong with wanting what you do. We all want someone we are attracted to. You need to find out what it is you're doing to attract these guys you're not interested in. Pretty girls are going to be hit on lots of guys no matter what she does, but if none of them are ever potential matches for you, then you have to look at what you're putting out there.
At the same time, you can't be afraid to approach the guys that you like. You're sitting there waiting for a catch to just fall in your lap, then want you, then actively pursue you.
That's unrealistic to assume that should happen to you.You shouldn't try and be with someone you're not attracted to so you're right there but as for the rest...
I'm not sure what you're complaining about or what you're asking but look at it this way, what if a guy complained online about how he could only 'score with ugly chicks that just ain't worth it'. He'd probably be laughed at and dismissed as a shallow tool. You seem to be upset that the universe hasn't provided you with a brilliant (looking) guy by post just because you're hot. Maybe I'm wrong but that's what it looks like to me.
And as for the title, "Typical Attractive Girl Dilemma". I half think you're a guy trolling.And maybe the hot guys don't think you're as hot as you think you are.
I think your attitude is the problem here, it seems you believe you're better than others, and honestly no one likes that, and maybe that's the reason why does you're interested in don't want anything with you.You have too high of an opinion of your current self. If you possessed the ability to get the man you want, you would be having more success. I am not saying you can't become the woman you need to be to get these men, but there is something that you need to address.
And it could be something simple. It sounds like you are doing online dating, maybe your profile just sucks.Oh it must be so fucking bad being approached by unattractive guys huh news flash the pretty guy will treat you like shit and the only guy that won't treat you like shit is the unattractive guy but you would never go for us will you. Your a typical woman always wanting the attractive guy that will treat you like shit v. s. the unattractive guy that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
I'm sorry I snapped I'm just so sick of women always judging me on my looks and never on how I treat them which is I treat them the best by the way but they still go for the pretty guy.No matter how hot you are, some guy got tired of your shit
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone you find attractive that's almost basic but the way you look at attraction is stupid. This may be an old saying but it's still holds true ''Beauty is I the eye of the beholder''. There will definitely be a guy your type that will be attracted to you, you just have to find them.
Things don't work like that. What your asking for is too much, yes. You can't dictate the terms of how you fall in love, if you ever get to that. You may never with the attitudee, if you want to call it that, you have. The day you stop caring about things like apperance as much as you do will be the day you get what you want.
The good looking guys have throngs of attractive women after them. They aren't looking for anything serious right now. I understand your dilemma.
Calm down! Every time someone posts like that, I hear Alvin and the Chipmunks! Seriously though, if you want something serious and you're only going off looks, you won't get anywhere. I'm ugly as sh*t and I'm going out with one of the most beautiful girls at my school! My point is, beauty is subjective, and the more you refuse to see from other perspectives, the more people will refuse to see from yours.
Annnnd its these types of posts that make girls look bad :/ you should be glad that any guy is approaching you, and not just be bitter about it
it sounds like you just think you're hot. as far as the gold digger thing, maybe that'll work for you, buy nicer more expensive clothing to make to your socioeconomic status seem higher and your desired better than average guys will start approaching you.
Why don't you stop being a princess and approach guys that you're attracted to yourself. And if they reject you... move on to the next one. That's what dudes are expected to do.
Maybe they feel the same way you do, typical attractive guy dilemma. Average girl who needs to get over herself, is mesmerized by their looks, and has a terrible personality, not giving everybody a fair chance.
and this is why you dont have all the good looking guys go for you., I won't date you ever just based on this
Have the men gather in a medium sized room and drop a sharp pole in the middle. The survivor is worthy to mate with you.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to date someone you're attracted to whether you think you're attractive or not.
I think you're going to the wrong places! Go to clubs or whatever there're good looking guys, looking for girls to spend the night.
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