I have been told by several of my friends that a girl wouldn't date him because he is Asian. I think this is completely insane! Asian men and they're style is definitely my type. Is it because they are shy, or scared of rejection? I think every man is scared of rejection is it just more severe?
Why are Asian men so scared to approach white women?
What Guys Said 13
In my circle of Asian male friends, it's certainly the opposite. Some have dated or currently dating a white girl. Though we did spent our childhood mostly in western culture... if that makes a difference. I think like any other man, some think 'she' is out of their league.1
I just had the same conversation with my Indian friend. He thinks white girls don't like him, and he doesn't listen to me. It's a bit understandable, think of an introverted shy white guy, now think of an introverted shy Asian or Indian guy. Of course, the Asian or Indian guy has it harder than the white guy, because their culture and their experience is different. I just think they're more insecure and they have nobody to learn from.1
I have an Asian friend and he only likes white women but he gets the impression white girls don't like Asian men. Every time he has approached a white girl he gets rejected.
He also says white women never show him any interest, it's a shame because he's a good looking guy with a great personality and a very good job, but he can't seem to get 'white women'...0
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It's part of a cultural thing going on in Asia. Men and boys are getting tired of spending most of their time at work supporting marriages and relationships that they are barely involved in. Thus, fewer and fewer Asian men are seeking relationships claiming it takes too much time from their work. This has made Asian boys in recent generations very shy.0
Are u referring to all asian? , well i am from southern (bali) , sometimes i loved to approach foreign white female tourists here ( mostly australian , sometimes get rejected )0
Should be brave and confident like these girls... hehe...
what is this stupid generalization you've made?0
Because of how white women talk about Asian men.3
These perceptions are so outdated.
I'm Asian and have only really dated white women. My brother is married and has a baby with a white woman.
As the poster has mentioned, we're still guys ourselves: we're subject to the same inhibitions some men have about approaching the beautiful women that most men want.1
What Girls Said 7
I love Chinese, Japanese and Korean men! I don't know why they don't but most are very shy. I've never been approached, I've never received a flirty message, I got close in a club but they would just smile and clearly felt awkward and shy, though the Asian girls were just as welcoming of me! I just love them all, they're so lovely! I think it's also down to culture, they may have been told white girls are easy (not girlfriend material) or they're told that they can't get into relationships because their education is more important. I don't know but whatever it is, I wish it would disappear.
Everyone's talking about how WE've made up that small penis stereotype. I don't even think about penis size when I'm dating or interested in a guy. Guys think more about penises and penis size than girls do, definitely. I would choose intelligent conversations over a penis any day.1
It's true... many people are racist to be honest against Asian or black man, i personally wouldn't date an Asian person because they are too rooted in their relligion (if you mean muslims that is), i wouldn't date muslims because id then be wearing muslim dresses because their family would care too much if i wore my own clothes... they would never respect my opinions or beliefs, i'm not racist in any way id happily have them as my friends. Black men aren't my style ether i just don't find them attractive, i tend to go for white skinnier shorter men than me or my own height, most women just wouldn't date a muslium man because of the diffferences in our belief system. If you mean Asian as in chinese though... i don't know why really... again chinese isn't my style ether so i don't know why they wouldn't date chinese.0
If you are referring to Asian Asian guys, they tend to lack the confidence in themselves and they felt that non Asian women dont like them. Also, They are intimidated by caucsian women who are being seem as louder, or more outspoken. Yes they are shy too.
Also, in Asian culture, Asian men still date within their own race, families objection are also one of the reasons why they dont date outside their own race0
White women can be very bad to Asian men. And to Asian women... I don't blame them for being antsy about it.0
Its because of how Asian mean are talked about and how much they are apparently known to be not like , which makes their confidence level go dowwwnnnnnn 😒0
maybe they're just not interested. those who are eventually will approach.0
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