First date or the first few, any signs I should look out for? I kinda feel I drop the ball on these sometimes. Maybe the girl should go in for the kiss sometimes, you KNOW we won't reject it.
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I usually initiate the first kiss because I get impatient waiting for a guy to make up his mind.
Wait for a moment when you are close, cuddling or something like that, and if there is a moment of silence in which she is just looking at you, mouth not hard shut but preferably slightly relaxed and open. That's generally a kiss me invitation. Also be mindful of her attitude towards you and body language, if she always tends to be pointing/leaning in your direction, that's a good sign. Third date (or fourth if she comes off as the type to warm up slowly) is also your best bet. First date is a test, second date may only be a second chance, by third date you can be mostly confident she's into you.