How much courage does it take to ask a girl out?

[Anonymous]

Scenario 1:
You're not sure she likes you back.

Scenario 2:
you know she likes you but you guys are not on speaking terms....

[ModernGent]

Scenario 1 - A lot of courage. Because you don't know how she feels.
If I'm not sure she likes me then I'll do anything I have to, to figure it out... And even then I'll still ask her out anyways if I find out she doesn't... you can't always trust her friends or your own to tell the truth.

That's not the best route to take because it's best not to waste the time waiting to find out the information and just go in as soon as possible, but I keep repeating the same stupid method.

Scenario 2 - Not much courage at all.
I'd just go in when she's not with anyone else that could try and pull her away for whatever reason. You already know the girl likes you so there's nothing to be afraid of and the only problems would be friends pulling her away thinking that she doesn't want your attention. A guy can always impress the friends later.

[Anonymous]

More than I've got...

What do you mean by "not on speaking terms"? Just that we don't really know each other, or that there's been some issue between us (which is what I'd take that to mean.) If it was he former and somehow I knew she liked me I guess I'd make myself ask her out, but it's not something I've managed to do with girls who I have no idea whether they like me or not.

[Asker]

I mean something happened between them and they don't speak with eachother.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I don't know then, would I like her too? It's seems a bit odd that we'd be in that situation.

[Anonymous]

Scenario 1: I would possibly hint I like her and then ask her if she likes anyone.. And then build it from there until I find out whether she does like me or not.
Scenario 2: I would start conversation and make her feel comfortable around me again, If I was at fault I'd apologise. When me and her are completely fine again then I'd start to hint about wanting to be with her.

[Anonymous]

Make a move. Or move on.

U will never know if u dont try.

I am a girl that dont know how to act like i love a guy. N not the tyoe to make a move either. N i always secretly wish a guy will come up to me n said he likes me.

[Lakeshow12]

It’s easier said then done do you realize how difficult that is it’s not as simple as it sounds many guys overthink or over analyze everything they talk themselves out of if fearing or expecting the worse that can happen REJECTION is not as bad as it seems but SO many guys are just fuckin scared there is nothing wrong with asking someone out if you’re interested in someone TELL them if you LIKE her TELL her let it be known otherwise if you don’t say anything to her she’s just gonna assume you’re not interested

[7heDubz]

Personally?

Scen 1 - Wouldn't even ask her out. I would befriend and form some kind of relationship prior.

Scen 2 - She likes me but we aren't on speaking terms? Maybe I'm blind but I've never had that one happen to me... Huh, anyways, It would take quite a bit if I'm not comfortable with her presence to begin with. (not on speaking terms)

[Anonymous]

Scenario 1 I think

But no matter she like me or not, I will try to find a way ask her out, You know If I don't keep trying maybe she would never interested in me. Courage? I think my courage=100% but my confidence can be so low, Almost close to 0%😖😲

[SomeoneImportant]

Scenario 1- Takes some massive balls
Scenario 2- A bit easier I assume, just got to get past that barrier of not being on speakimg terms.

[Nexus5]

Piece of cake in both scenario.

Let me ask you out. Lets go out for a dinner :).

Remember guys, women won't shoot you, they will just say no or worse accept your offer and then cancel it on the last moment.

[matheus_mb]

The first scenario would require more courage than the second one. Uncertainty always makes things harder.

[Lakeshow12]

Yes because you don’t know wether they feel the same way about you which is very difficult since women in general are not direct about their feelings and intentions with a guy the guy will have to step up and risk possible rejection the only way to find out if she likes you or is interested in you is to ask her out there’s no foolproof way to know how someone else feels about you it’s impossible all you can do is express you’re interest in the person that you’re interested in

[jmmmfi]

A fuck ton. You girls are extremely hard to approach.

[petquack77]

Scenario 2- is nice but how do you know if she's taken or not? Women could be attracted to you and have a bf at the sametime.

[Lakeshow12]

Because guys just make assumptions or assume if a girl is pretty or attractive she must have a boyfriend already or is taken you won't know until you ASK but lotta guys just assume YOU never know if you don’t try at least make the attempt if she declines oh well that’s her loss

[Anonymous]

It's where you think she does but, you're not exactly sure

[Phoenix98]

More then you would think lol.

[Anonymous]

A ton of courage (for both scenarios)

[Asker]

Even if you know she likes you?

[Opinion Owner]

yeah (b/c you're not on speaking terms). If I know she likes me but we are on speaking terms it's easier

[AlwaysBelieving]

A lot more for me than gals realize

[Ihav2fart]

Not that much.

[Ihav2fart]

Scenario 2 is a pain in the ass though

[Asker]

Why? If you like her, won't you try to fix it?

[Ihav2fart]

knowing someone and not being on speaking terms is a pain