When guys get a message from a girl they like or are seeing or even there girlfriend do you sometimes overthink their message or read too much into it?
- Yes sometimes80% (36)
- No20% (9)
Most Helpful Guy
So let me get this straight. Women are always sending out signals that they think are obvious when they are in reality really subtle and hard to interpret and now you think that men spend too much time reading into things? Sometimes I can't tell if women are confusing or confused. Men read too much into things because women are not clear enough. We don't have the luxury of knowing the thoughts behind a message, we only know what it says and we are left to work out whether or not there is a hidden meaning. It's obvious to women because they know their own intentions, but sometimes it's not clear to those on the other end whether a girl is being friendly or flirty. Making people guess leaves some people looking for meaning that isn't there and some people overlooking signals that are there.0