Okay, so basically i have no idea of relationships and I like this girl. My mate told her that I liked her and she seemed cool with it and it was going pretty well and she liked me back a bit. So she went to hug me when I had to leave, but i went for the awkward pat hug and now she's just being a bit blunt and doesn't seem to be putting as much effort in and sometimes ignores my texts? We're going on a date on Friday, but how bad have I messed up basically and can I redeem myself?
I dont know if she sees it as a date or not? I asked her she wants anyone else to come and she said its up to you so I said no. Im paying for it all and also its on my birthday on Friday if that affects anything?
I'm sorry but if she's like that at all on the date you've lost her. Girls make up our minds quick and if there wasn't much there to begin with and something gets weird its going to stay weird for her because there is not much to compare it to. But good luck I hope she's nothing like me and gets over it
She probably just doesn't know where you guys stand right now. Make sure you tell her how excited you are for your date (I would even text her right now). If you give her your full attention and make it obvious you like her, all will be forgiven.