They have all this great "advice" and tell you about the social "dynamics" of how people interact with each other. It looks good on paper but it's all a hoax. They just want to scam you for money. There is no "game" or "skill" in getting a girlfriend/boyfriend, or getting laid for that matter. It's pretty much luck: You're either rich and good looking or ugly and broke. It's as simple as that. It hurts both genders (the money part mainly hurts men.) Why does anyone trust these people?
Yes, dating coaches are scam artists
67% (16)36% (10)50% (26)Vote
No, dating coaches are legit
0% (0)7% (2)4% (2)Vote
It depends on the dating coach
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Dating coaches aren't scam artists but they're useless.
I pick D. Not all of them are necessarily scam artists, but the title "dating coach" is so ridiculously stupid. Is there a degree to dating? Is there a dating training to get you qualified to be a coach? *facepalm* they're just like those self-proclaimed messiahs.
It's desperate peoples fault for allowing themselves to be strung along.
Instead of paying for the service I'll tell you what they actually do. They constantly just ask women out every day until they get a yes. They get rejected 40 times in a single day but they got like 4 yeses as well on that day.
I think that the problem is this: the ability to date well, is mostly due to "emotional intelligence" or "social intelligence" or whatever you want to call it, that enables some people to read others and adjust their behavior "in real time." In other words, you me someone, decide you're interested, approach them, and then while interacting with them you quickly "get" whether they're interested, what they dislike, what interests them, and you successful "go" with that. Probably nothing can change that innate ability.
However, part of dating is EXPERIENCE. A good dating coach can help you develop whatever ability you have to read others, and help you come up with strategies to act and dress appropriately. To that extent, a dating coach can help.
If anyone can get the message through to someone that life is short, you get one chance so you might as well love yourself and go for it then they are a good dating coach. After all that it is dressing better and maybe gaining some manners and anyone with fashion sense and manners can pull that off.
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