Need some help improving my game when it comes to sexual tension. I can get the dates and numbers. However, I realized I have very little to no sexual tension to throw out on the date. It's almost like I treat them as a friend, which leads to friend zone unless the girl is really attracted. What are some examples of sexual tension and when can they be used?
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girls will give some very strong signals if they're attracted to you. they'll run their fingers through their hair a lot, lick their lips, play with something cylindrical (seriously) like a glass, cross and uncross their legs, and gaze into your eyes with noticeably widened pupils. so here's what you do... say you're at a bar or something. invade her space just a little. if she leans away from you, she's not into it. if she's into it, she lean closer. but DON'T kiss her yet. just stand slightly too close and maybe put your hand on her lower back so you can lean in and ask her a question. speak quietly if you can, so she has to listen very carefully. and if you've got the balls, let your lips brush her ear.