What's the difference?
Most Helpful Girl
no difference. none. Playing hard to get means setting a higher value for oneself
how is it setting anything. its a game.. wasting everyones time. If a person is not worth enough to you that they can be direct and still be sought after... then pushing you off is not increasing their value its just accommodating your desire to play games. A persons value is inherent within them.. its not an external thing.
I dont think you'll be able to see if a person is playing games or not bc you like playing games. and people who ply games have difficulty seeing like through any other loans.0
Most Helpful Guy
ok, for that i must refer to 2 of my own experiences. I had girlfriend in 2014, who i had a great time with. She then left for a 3 week holiday to her home country. So i thought well, i see her when she gets back, she is having a good time with her mom , and friends who she hasn't seen for some time. so the day she came back, i was like, cool she is back. Well i got a text from her saying, sorry we can't be together bye. at work she would act distant , untill after a few weeks she started flirting with me again. Everytime i responded she would brush me off, till one day, she was flirting again with me at work, and i decided that this BS had to stop. i never knew why she left me in the first place. so i finished early that day and later dropped by at her place. She let me in , and i just told her, i know you still like me so what do you want. she starting leaning against me, and well before i knew we ended up having sex several times during the next days, staid together for a while but it ended all sour because she became pregnant from me , miscarried our child and ever since she hates me and i dont know why. currently im texting a girl i met in rl, we kissed and when ever i ask her for a 2nd date she just doesn't answer my f. ing question. only giving me boring answers etc. I think she is leading me on or using me as an option so im gonna be a bit more distant now, and i tell her after maybe 2 days that this is going nowhere, we had a pretty cool contact, and if she wants to try , we can , if not, wel cya but im to good to be one of your options. so i you want to meet up, i will hear from you and if not well, anyway. ciao. Its hard but in the end you will always have to be straight forward, like i did with my ex girlfriend, and which im about to do now.0