I don't know what these people are all talking about in the comments. Colonial times, proud of being white whatever but that's all not true. Guess they all haven't been to the Netherlands themselves.
My male friends actually prefer Asian girls. I know a lot of guys do. I don't think Dutch people are more picky in dating whatsoever. I think you just had some bad luck. The only thing you should keep in mind is that we might be a little harsh with words and that you don't misinterpret that.
Trust me I'm Dutch.
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tbh I've known a good chunk of northern europeans, mainly scandinavians but dutch as well, who tend to be very particular about dating white women cuz whiteness is important to them and they are proud of it. not all r like this, but its possible thats what uve run into thusfar.
Yes your right it a hang over from the Dutch - East Indies days. Most European powers had colonies of one form or another so it takes time for these racised bigoted views to subside fully and unfortunately the male/ female sexual dominance makes your situation worse iam afraid.
It will take time still as men still teach their sons hatred. Sexual religious and racist but I think we're getting there.
Here is another one. The Korean man blaming white women because they don't date him and now an Asian woman blames Dutch people for "hating" her race. You stick to your own race. It's that simple. Normal, natural and beautiful. Like it or not there are people in this world who date within their race as nature expects from us to preserve our beautiful identity.
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People have preferences in every country. I know a lot of Asians who will not even look at black people. It's swings and roundabouts.
Dutch men couldn't care less about Asian women. Dutch men want White women of the same race as them. Go find an Asian guy from your own race and leave Dutch/White men alone. We don't want you.
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