Girls know that they are attractive because people tell them. However, nobody really comments on the appearance of guys. Even when a guy is 6-8.5/10, it would be rare for him to get a compliment. As a guy, you need to be 8.5+ / 10 in order to receive compliments. So how are we, as guys, supposed to know how attractive we are?
You will know because good looking guys are like social magnets. Girls will probably smile a lot around you, strangers will flirt with you. You'll probably find it easier to make friends, as well. I was once on a date with an extremely attractive guy, and the waitress at the restaurant only spoke to him to ask for our order, completely ignoring me, then openly tried to flirt with him in front of me. I think that's pretty much what it's like.
it s pretty obvious when you are gd looking. girls will give you more attention and I for example do compliment guys and no they don t have to be 8 and above for that. show us a pic and I ll tell you if you re gd looking :p
Girls need people to compliment them because it makes them feel good about themselves. Guys aren't judged as much in terms of appearances. So even if you aren't very attractive you still have a better chance in love, life and pretty much everything then most not very attractive women. That's just how society is. So yeah I guess it just depends on how a guy sees himself
Girls will check you out and look at you, other men acknowledge you with a slight nod when you meet their eyes. Everytime you sit down or walk into somewhere crowded girls will stand/sit near you and try to catch your eye.
You then guage your attractiveness based on the attractiveness of the girls that do it. If you're getting girls you think are 7+, then congrats you're 7+.
When you get attention from the ladies.. when a girl that didn't have to talk to you talks to you.
This sounds harsh but it is very simple. Do you have women approaching you a lot? If not then you are not attractive to most women. The reason guys think women have a problem approaching a guy, is because those guys aren't attractive enough for women to want to approach them. Women approach guys they are attracted to all the time. The fact is attractive people get approached, and unattractive people have smoke blown up their ass being told things like they intimidate others, or that the right girl will come along eventually.
If you aren't in the top 20% of guys, most women won't be physically attracted to you. In that case you most likely won't be attractive to women until she is ready to settle so she can get other traits like a relationship or a father for her children. This generally happens when the woman has a kid or two, and has gotten old enough that she has gotten a lot more desperate.