Have happened first time and I am shocked. I thought guys like short girls? I am 164cm long and met a guy last week. He is Swedish exchance student, it is the first time I have ever told I am short. In my country some guys think I am too tall for their taste but WTF wrong with swedish guys?
He wasn't taller than 180
Most Helpful Guy
To be fair you are not too short, for a girl, anyway not all guys like short girls, it's just that guys are rejecting much less on this base, but it's his right to do that, and lets fact it, one of the main reasons that you wanted him in the first place, is because he is tall. Guys usually prefer girls who are shorter then them, but if they are too short, it's not a plus.
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I think we women get told things early in life to make us believe that what we have is good enough - when it isn't always the case.
I grew up believe that guys liked short girls, and blondes were more attractive. That was a boost for me, since I was both. So you can imagine my surprise when my first crush in highschool refused to date me, but went with a black-haired girl. I was stunned, thinking that since I was blonde I should have just had my pick of the bunch.
Well, we all have types, and guys will have their "thing" if they like taller women or different colouring, or whatever. I have my type, and never dated men that weren't my type because they just didn't do it for me in the looks-department. If I said anything about it, I caught grief from they guys I was turning down, who told me I was missing out on some good guys.
That's fine, I agree there ARE good people out there, but if someone just has a certain preference, there is nothing you can do to change them, and they can't change you to be what they want. We just have to accept that our style or look just won't do it for everyone, or just anyone.0