Am I screwed in dating because I'm short?

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I'm sure this question has been asked before in one way shape or form, but that's OK. I would like to revive it and make it my own.

Anyway, I'm a very short guy. 5'4, and I feel that it has really killed me in the dating world. I've really struggled to get GF's or even a date for that matter, even though girls constantly tell me I'm attractive, dress well, am smart, a good guy, would make a good dad, have a good career, etc. I'm also fully aware of how to interact with girls. I'm not some inept loser who practically throws up out of nervousness when talking to a girl.

It just seems that by process of elimination it must be height that is causing me to get rejected over and over again (even by girls shorter than me), even though on every other front people always tell me how I have so much going for me. I just don't understand how I can feel like I'm doing everything right and have limited success in relation to my peers who do almost everything wrong and have dates and GF's coming out of their ears.

So again, am I pretty much screwed in dating since I'm so short, will 90% of women simply not give me the time of day because they just cannot be attracted to someone of my height?

You're totally screwed
Vote A
You still have a chance but its GREATLY hindered by your height.
Vote B
You still have a chance but its only SLIGHTLY hindered by your height.
Vote C
Won't effect your ability to get dates at all. Your height is a non issue.
Vote D
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I'm actually a fairly confident person. Not over the top confident where I just walk up to ever random girl in the bar and hit on her, but overall I know I'm a good looking guy that is overall a good person, which is why I'm so confused. I'm simply thinking logically and using process of elimination.


I can hold my own and have no problems pursing a girl when the opportunity presents itself. I actually coach most of my guy friends on how to handle getting a girl.
Am I screwed in dating because I'm short?
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