I have dated military guys and all of them are super clingy. Especially marines and soldiers. They want to text 24/7, keep in constant contact and say "I love you" all too early. It's creeping me out. Why are they clingy? Don't they have to work?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like you don't really deserve a person who wants to be involved. We are talking about servicemen who have been out doing their 'work' mainly with people from their own sex not really having any communication to the civilian world we live in. Unfortunately they don't have the knowledge on how to go about things because they were too busy, I don't know, serving for their country?
If you cared for them you would of spoken about this and asked them to slow it down a tad. We are talking about soldiers and marines here. Communication is key to them and they know the importance of it. They are not wired to understand the bullshit mind games you've probably put them through. They think in a way of "She would tell me if something is up right?"
You sound very stuck up, and there's plenty of women out there who would love to be involved and build a life with someone from that uniform. So stop talking about them like you deserve the perfect man going.1
Most Helpful Girl
It's the nature of their job, think about it. They are training, killing and using armed devices for a living. It's only normally for them to want a bit of normality in their lives, but because the nature of their work is so dark, a woman in their life to talk to is a god-send.
It's not a bad thing, think how you'd feel having to be in a long distance relationship while you work in the military, not knowing what your partner is up to on the outside, not being able to have any physical or even emotional contact. It builds up inside :)2