Say you start dating someone and you end up really liking them but then they either lead you on, rebound on you, cheat, manipulate you, etc.
You may be happy you found signs early on but it takes you awhile to get over them because of how close you felt to them, you just have a difficult time getting over it?
Im going through this right now and I've gone through it before. It's a rather shitty feeling. It's like sure you can point out their red flags and ways they screwed you over but because you had feelings for them, it's not easy to get over it by the flip of a light switch.
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I honestly don't know which is worse, when you see red flags and stay away and it kills you ir when you give in and it fs you up
either way you are screwed
I have however worked on myself a lot and resisting guys I have strong connections with but are no good for me
I think w me getting more confident, knowing my worth better, knowing what I deserve and not accepting bs, I will not fall in love w guys like that no more... just the theory for now but I think I'm on a good way w this
maybe really does experiences were meant to push you to face things and work on you... but I don't think that is necessary, there are better ways... I think it's not our fault w fall in love w someone like that and it's not fair0
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