Don't get me wrong, I want to be respected, I'm not into being shamed or called names but if I have a boyfriend and he tells me to change my dress before we go out, my heart will definitely melt. Sometimes it gets confusing because I'm an independent woman, yet I want a man who can make me cook and clean for him but still call me beautiful.
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See, it's "cute" in THOUGHT. But that's it.
I know in your head the thought of a guy telling you to do x, y, and z sounds appealing, but the reality often turns out to be far different from the fantasy. Guys who need that much control over you likely don't trust you, don't value your opinion or feedback, and frankly I don't get everyone's kink for possessiveness. Possessiveness turns into intentional isolation in my experience.
Of course, that's not all cases, but it seems like it's a little too romanticized for me to see the appeal. But to each their own.1