No it is not bad at all. Actually it sounds like you want a confident dominate man that loves you and shows that he loves you by being possessive. Which is an easy way to show that he loves you. However with you being independent your actually probably just looking for a man that is confident, knows what he wants and will tell you. Who is not afraid to show you that your the woman that he loves. Most independent women only like a man who is dominant in bed. If you are independent then you would not like him being dominant because that takes away most of your freedom. Do you actually want him to MAKE you cook and clean while he sits on his ass or do you want a man to ask you to cook and clean for him but will help you with it. Now there is nothing wrong with roleplaying but I'm sure that you don't want to be a dominant man's maid all the time. Because that is what happens. Also if you wore a dead he did not like a dominant man would make you change.
Is it bad if you really do like being submissive no it is not. That is part of who you are. I don't mean to kind of step on your dreams but I just had 2 female friends break up with some very nasty dominant men and it was and is not pretty.
Most girls want that, they either don't know it or are too proud to admit it.
See, it's "cute" in THOUGHT. But that's it.
I know in your head the thought of a guy telling you to do x, y, and z sounds appealing, but the reality often turns out to be far different from the fantasy. Guys who need that much control over you likely don't trust you, don't value your opinion or feedback, and frankly I don't get everyone's kink for possessiveness. Possessiveness turns into intentional isolation in my experience.
Of course, that's not all cases, but it seems like it's a little too romanticized for me to see the appeal. But to each their own.
Its not bad if you enjoy that sort of relationship. It's your preference and if it makes you happy then that's ok.
The only downside is you'd have to be careful you don't attract a controlling , emotionally and mentally abusive man
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Well you're Algerian, so I'd imagine that's a pretty common practice for you to feel this way.
Also, there's a big difference between being "shamed" and "called names" then your boyfriend or husband casually telling you to put on a new dress before going out.
Lmao. You want a dom.. simple and sweet. You like being told what to do because it makes you feel feminine.
It isn't 'bad,' but definitely risky. Strongly possessive and dominating men are often abusive and don't have that softer side you described, so you'd need to be discerning about who you get involved with
It's a pretty common desire among girls your age. Just make sure any guy you find like this is a responsible dominant and not just a control freak.
Could end up biting you in the ass some day.
I think a little possesivness is fine but there is definitely a line that beyond which, it starts to become dangerous.
as long as he doesn't mistreat you, what's the problem?
It may be difficult to find someone who will strike that balance for you, but everyone has preferences and this is just yours, so own it
its not bad, its great in my opinion.
you're an independent woman at 17? is this a real account?
Did you rip this off my question I just posted minutes ago about would a women date a caveman and secondly it was more looks then behavior.
Then my ex boyfriend is right for you 👌🏻
All girls think like you
Yes, it's bad. You'll get cave men treatment.
I guess not, though I don't understand it.
Whatever floats your boat.
But there are no cavemens anymore
Naw, we all have our preferences.
so, you want a "daddy"
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