I am a fit guy with defined muscles and a six pack but I am not as big as those bodybuilders. I am happy with my body but the problem is that I am attracted to bigger girls i. e. girls with some meat or just big boned girls. I know many guys are attracted to curvy girls but by bigger I mean much bigger than your "hot girl". I might date a girl up to 200 lbs or even more if she holds weight well. Here are some photos of girls I think are hot:
These girls are all 200 lbs. But the problem is that they are much bigger than me, I am only 5'10'' and 145-150 lbs. It is generally thought that the guy must be the bigger one but I don't care, I like whom I like and can't change it. I dated skinny girls and they didn't turn me on as much as big girls do. Bigger girls, would you date a guy that is smaller than you or you'll feel too insecure around him? I tried approaching bigger girls but they weren't very enthusiastic about it. Is it because they don't believe I may actually like them or they are disgusted by the idea of dating a smaller guy? I only get hit on by skinny girls so their size is certainly the reason.
- I am a bigger girl and interested in skinny fit guys.Vote A
- I am a bigger girl and only interested in big guys.Vote B
- Not a bigger girl but I think they are interested in skinny fit guys.Vote C
- Not a bigger girl but I think they are only interested in big guys.Vote D
Most Helpful Girl
It's not that I'm disgusted by skinny guys. I just like being smaller than my partner even if only by a little. That goes for if I'm dating another woman too. I just like the dynamic better. I don't like being on top, be it during sexual encounters or merely sitting on your lap. I feel self-conscious the whole time, thinking stuff like, "I HAVE to be cutting off SOME blood circulation/this can't be that comfortable for him."
To avoid that, I just steer clear of skinny people romantically/sexually.
I hope that helped in some way and good luck!0
Most Helpful Guy
You're gonna be fine, bro. Thick women love smaller more athletic guys as much as anybody. The trick is to date women that aren't secure about their bodies so much. But that's the trick for anybody of any size in addition to being secure in your own physique. Physique insecurity kills relationships worse than cheating in my opinion.
Just focus on what you want, follow that and you'll be way happier than if you don't.