OK first let me say that I do NOT want an abortion debate. I am pro-life...(or "anti-choice" if you wish to use that terminology, although its kinda not accurate in my opinion) Anyways...I just kinda would never want to have a relationship (especially sexual) with someone who would be comfortable having an abortion...I mean I don't want get some one pregnant and the have her destroy it while I get to have say...But it seems like most girls are extremely pro-choice...it just bugs me...not that I want to have sex with every girl I go out with...or plan of having kids but 1) Every girl I date...somewhere in the back of my mind I weight the possibility she could become my wife...and even if I had sex before marriage and got a girl pregnant...I wouldn't be happy with the timing but I would not b okay with an abortion.
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Seeing as I'm 21 and completely against abortion, I'm sure there must be some other girls out there who feel the same way as I do about it.
In my opinion the best thing to do is to make your views on such issues clear early in a relationship because it's really important that both you and your future wife have the same values. Even if you get through the dating stage of a relationship without conflicting views of abortion being a problem...as in you don't get her pregnant before you're married - there's always the possibility that in the future if you marry her, she gets pregnant at a time she feels is inconvenient, you may have no say in whether your child lives or dies.
Always best to make sure your views on such issues are the same.2