My boyfriend is perfect in every way when it comes to the two of us, but their is another girl in the picture. She was just a close friend to both of us, but then my boyfriend told me he loved her as well. The two have been just like a couple ever since. I couldn't bring myself to try to forbid him to talk to her(which he said he would do if I NEEDED it), because I didn't want to hurt either of them, and ruin the friendship we all had. But, I'm tired of being jealous and of sharing him emotionally. It has been about a year of this, and I can't ask them to stop hanging out now, as they have gotten even closer. I love him so much, but it seems like my only two choices are deal with it or leave, because I can't make myself ask that of them. What should I do? I need him, but I need out of this to. And would having none of him really be better than sharing?
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oh my lord, this is mildly depressing. sweetie, as much as you think you love him, you don't because before you can love someone soooo much, you have to love yourself genuinely as much first and if you're letting him do this to you for sooooo long then you don't love yourself. he's a douche lord ( sorry, its hard to swallow I know). this is a bit harsh but you've GOT to let him go. you're waaaay too young to get THAT serious with a guy that's creepin on you in plain sight. she's a terrible friend to you. and he's a terrible bf. get out of that relationship A.S.A.P. plzzz :(2