Should girls initiate first kiss?

seriously I think that boys should be the ones to do that, but girls do it as well. But how are guys going to look at a girl that initiated their first kiss? What if a guy is not ready for that first kiss and the girl just...ruins that?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Nothing wrong with a girl who initiates the first kiss. Just make sure you're both in the mood (not saying you shouldn't be), and not stressed out or nervous from expectations. Just try to relax and let it progress naturally. If you want to kiss him, and you notice he's really into you and looking at you like a lovesick puppydog (ok, maybe an exaggeration), then I think you should go for it. There's absolutely no rule at all that says a girl can't initiate a kiss, nor that a girl can't approach a guy first, or give a guy compliments. Just forget all that. It's all about you and him, and how you feel about each other. That's what matters. Good luck!

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What Guys Said 14

  • " What if a guy is not ready for that first kiss and the girl just...ruins that?"

    ^^You can say the same exact thing from the opposite standpoint. What if the girl isn't ready and the guy ruins that? That's the risk every guy takes, so can't women take it too?

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  • If the girl wants to initiate the kiss then she should go for it. It would be silly not to do so with the reasoning being that its the guys job to do that.

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  • I'd look at it that she's really interested in me! Why would she be kissing me if she wasn't? There is no "he should / she should" first. When someone in a relationship feels it, and they reasonably believe the other feels the same way, they should go for it regardless of which gender they are.

    As for ruining it, life and love is all risk and it goes both ways. Even if he/she is ready for it, it can still not work out right. Don't worry about ruining a kiss.

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  • dont wrry bout it, it just happens. if you think bout it too much it can an awkward experience. just let it flow

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  • a girl could tell if the guy is ready, but a guy can't really tell if a girl is. and if the girl acted first, the guy would most likely take it as a complement.

    i've been studying people for years and us guys are easier to preddict than girls

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  • Absolutely, there is no reason that a girl shouldn't initiate the first kiss. There is no difference weather the guy or girl does so.

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  • ya caveman yourself into the kiss.unpredictable kisses are a real turn on

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  • In my opinion, yes. It shows that he has done things right and your showing your satisfaction.

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  • Either should equally be comfortable and willing to initiate the first kiss, male or female.

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  • If you really like him and can't help yourself ...

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  • Why not ?

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  • Yes go for it!

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  • Wait for him. If he's too shy, initiate the kiss. Hopefully you won't have to hold his hand through the relationship after that.

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  • well boys have that same felling but most wouldn't mind the girl starting the first kiss.

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What Girls Said 3

  • I don't see why not. Some guys are full of BS about the girls they've been out with but in reality are nervous. It's important to read the signals he gives out first, though. If he looks as though he is about to kiss you, but makes a bad job of backing out, that masy be your chance. If he is genuinely shy, and doesn't want to be sdeenm as pushy, your move might just be the breakthrough. TRy something like touchig his arm with your hand; anything that will make him tingle. Guys love the same sort of things we do; if he is looking down, gently tilt his chin up with a finger, smile, and brush his lips with yours. Watch him melt

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  • go for it! he'll probably like it way more than you'll know!:)

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  • Guys should do it but sometimes they're too shy. With my bf, after he didn't kiss me on the first 3 dates, I took the initiative and kissed him.

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    • I like it! howd it happen? just went for it?There's this girl I've just started to see, and I wouldn't mind a kiss, see if there is anything there. should I just go for it next time we hangout? its her birthday in 3 weeks...You think that would be a good time? How should I approach that?.....

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