She told me after three days that I shouldn’t have kissed her?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to this girl for a month. We texted everyday, and altough I was the one to initiate it at first, she became the one to frequently start conversations. She is very responsive, there’s no way I am the one to insist to keep this going.

We only went on two dates, the latter being on last Thursday. We held hands and at the end I gave her a quick kiss on the lips. She did not back off or anything like it.

After that she texted me immediately and everything was normal until today. Talking about someone else, she said kissing without notice is not a good idea.

So I asked her if she didn’t like that I kissed her like that and said “definetely no”. I then jokingly said I should have warned her first and she responded saying I should not have kissed her at all. Then I told her there’s no point in talking to her anymore (assuming that she doesn’t like me) amd she only sent me a sad emoji, which I left on read.

I really do not understand her behaviour. You don’t just text a guy everyday to make him your bff without knowing him before. And if she doesn’t see me in a romantical way why she didn’t say “no kiss” right after it happened?

[Anonymous]

This is a huge redflag. What would happen if she did the same after sex...

''I’d like to know what the hell was in her mind before cutting off contact. ''

None of it will make sense, it won't be logical, and it won't mean a thing. Forget about what may, or may not have been in her head and run as fast, and as far away as possible. If you do not do this, you will live to regret it.

There is no need to text everyday either... you're not her girlfriend.

[Asker]

I didn’t mean to text her everyday, I thought she liked me. How can you hold hands and kiss without saying it bothered you? Or per you, what if we had sex? “Oh yeah, by the way I did not like it but I couldn’t say no so we’re still friends.”

[Opinion Owner]

You're still friends? then good luck. Concerning the sex. I meant, what would have happened if 3 days after you had it, she decided you shouldn't have, o that it was wrong.

[Tututwerl09]

Dude exactly. Fuck that bitch!

[Asker]

Wishing I could just leave her, but I’d like to know what the hell was in her mind before cutting off contact.

[Tututwerl09]

I don't know that's really weird maybe she was put off by the kissing and thought it was rude. Obviously she didn't like you like that and wanted to keep you in the friendzone