Dumping via texting is very cowardly and wrong. I was dumped through text messaging after dating the guy for 7 months. It was very painful and made me feel like he never really cared about me at all during the relationship. He even had the nerve to get upset with me for not wanting to be his friend after his actions. You did absolutely nothing wrong in your actions. The break-up process is no fun for anybody, but breaking up through text messaging just causes pain on both sides. You were the mature one in the situation.
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At least you got a text! The guy I've been seeing for over a year just stopped talking to me. And he's a hell of a lot closer to 50 than 40. I sent him a text asking if he wanted me to leave or if he just wanted to left alone or be with someone else. He couldn't even give that a straight answer via text, phone message, voice mail, email...nothing. I've been twisting in the wind for almost a month! I'm thinking that is the grand daddy of Coward.
He's very immature. Good riddance, you should be happy he's outta there. Now go egg his house.
People don't like to face the truth when they know they were wrong, so don't worry too much about what he did.
And yes, dumping someone by any format other than in person is very cowardly.
The only time it's acceptable is when you have no other options, in which case I'd reccomend a written letter, because at least it conveys that you put forth effort and thought.
Yes its cowardly and rude, always break up face to face.
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not really, if I don't really care about a girl or if she is a complete nut job and I can't be stuffed dealing with her crap I would dump her over text or maybe just ignore her and move on
Ending a relationship through text is a HIGH SCHOOL move! Its very immature.
you were completely right in everything you did.
people should never ever ever dump people through texting!Yes. Dumping by text is childish as fuck.
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