So I asked this girl I know if she wanted to do something next Saturday over text msg. her responds was "not sure lol", I responded with "well then when are you sure about it? lol" I've yet to hear back from her for about 2 hours now, so should I just assume the answer is a no, or a maybe? So was it that I asked over a text message or what?
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I normally do not mind when someone asks me to do something over a text message. Have you talked to thiis girl before or is this the first time? She could be busy doing something and will respond with time...there is no need to get worked up over the fact that she has not texted you back. If she does not responded by the end of today simply send her a text saying "so this is what I am planning on doing on satuday and I would love it if you wanted to join! just let me know when you can so I can figure everything out, if not we can just catch up later!" that way your putting it out there and if she still is standoffish then let it go. But by saying what you have planned it is more direct and it lets her see what her options are and makes you look less needy! hope this helps!0