so I'm gonna ask this girl to hang out who works at this place I frequent. the problem is that I want to do it in a way that's not "creepy." I've been hanging out with my friends (girls) and they get hit on by guys and most of the time after it happens they're like "that guy was a creeper," or "that was kind of creepy." I don't know what the guidelines are and what is considered creepy or not nowadays. most of it seemed pretty normal to me.
so how do I come off as non creepy or is this different from girl to girl? is "do you want to hang out sometime?" creepy? also this isn't the first time I've ever talked to her. we have mini conversations while I'm there, because I'm usually not there long, and she's flirted with me a couple times. my friends have also said that they think she's interested but I'm pretty sure they're biased...
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Well personally, I think some girls are just too judgmental and call anyone who they're not attracted to that tries to hit on them a creeper. I think if your friends call the guy a creeper most of the time they are probably just being bitches lol. For me, I think a guy who is hitting on me is creepy if he's obviously a lot older than me or if he's too persistent like I've already rejected him and he keeps at it. If you've already had some conversations with this girl and she responds back to you and doesn't try to avoid you or anything, I'm sure she likes you on at least some level (basically if she was creeped out by you she would shrug you off, not make much convo, avoid you). So just go up to her and ask her out!1