Its just very obvious. People can talk to her and joke and she is all smiles and laughs and she is very pleasant to them. There's no doubt in anybody's mind (our friends) that we get along, but we just have a very different kind of relationship. She is a lot quieter with me, unless I start a conversation and even when I do, she doesn't seem very enthusiastic, she is cold and short at times.
However, even if she is being like that, she always responds and is always teasing me and calling me names. She knows I like when she is like that because we can go head to head with sarcasm and smartass responses and our friends always start laughing when they hear us talk, because its funny, but she just acts so dry and calls me names like she doesn't like me. She calls me annoying a lot, no matter what I say she is always calling me that but we do have pleasant and funny conversations.
She tells me we are not friends and yet she seems comfortable enough to call me all kinds of things, we argue a lot, we seem to disagree on every single thing and yet, she seems to enjoy it because as annoying as I'm being, she will keep talking to me and giggling and smiling (while trying to hide it) so I don't know what to do. Should I leave her alone? She gets upset when I ignore her and yet when I talk, she calls me annoying so its just so confusing, please help.
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hmmn that's odd I definitely sense some TENSION going on here, like its 50/50 she may be attracted to you but at the same time doesn't like your personality may be or doesn't see a future with you so she's kind of stuck in the situation. I feel like I've felt this way before like sometimes I think a guy is cool and all but I don't wanna date him necessarily.
another thing can be that she is just shy around you because she is attracted to u, and she's quiet because she doesn't know the right things to say or is insecure to be herself...i guess she's self conscious around you and doesn't wanna do the wrong thing to turn you off.
its a tricky situation, but for some reason I feel like I've been in this situation before lol.0