I tried making a girl jealous by chatting with another girl and ignoring her. I made it look like I was really into this other girl. I think it backfired on me though because before she was really into me and after that she doesn't talk to me. What can I do to get her talking to me again?
I think you should confess that you like this girl so you can get the budding connection back on track. Then if she brings up the other girl then just be like well I like you but I didn't know if you would return my feelings so I talked to her for a little bit, but make it clear that the other girl is on the back burner.
In the future if you want to make them jealous you can't make hitting on other women so blatant to the point where you seem like you are using women. You need to make the women feel special and make them feel like they are being pursued but you want to subtly show that you have plenty of options. Just a few displays of them seeing you tell a joke and make hotties laugh should do it. Women have no ability to get d*** that doesn't want to be got so if she sees you pursuing another woman and not pursuing her she will give up. You need to actively pursue women but subtly show them that if they start playing games with you that you can replace them.
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Come clean and be honest with her why you were chatting with the other girl.
A guy did this to me once. Your girl's avoidance response was similar to mine. If she was also thinking the same things as me she would have concluded you are a player who isn't interested in a relationship with her and would rather flirt with a lot of women rather than be committed to one. You messed bout with her feelings that's why she isn't talking to you, she's avoiding you to have some time to get over you.
The only thing you can do is explain and apologize, in whatever way you can. And hopefully she'll give you a second chance.
I wasn't going to answer but I changed my mind. I'm that girl and going through the same thing. Every opinion was spot on. I trusted this guy 100% and loved him. Then the jealousy games started. Wrong move. Now I don't trust him. I don't know what is what anymore. It is completely ruined now. No trust. No relationship. It will never be the same. Only accusations, insecurities, and uncertainty will rule the relationship. No girl is going to buy your sorry excuse. Grow up and stop playing with people's feelings. That is cruel.
Sometimes you've got to know a girl before you start playing games with her, because some of us can play better than you. So now you're going to have to do twice the work that you would have had to do before she beat you. You know how to be charming and wonderful. Do it.
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Trying to make someone jealous rarely works, and why do you want to do that in the first place? Try enjoying the relationship, and stop playing games.
Yep, that's how that goes. Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose when we Risk.
Your behavior is toxic.
Learn "how to make women feel comfortable" if you want to have relationship. You cannot have connection with ANY HUMAN while you try to make them feel uncomfortable and upset
People always will run away from you and never look backSome of us don't play games and when we realize someone is, we move on. Games can be indicators for the following: low self-esteem, absence of respect, dishonesty a future abuser. Who needs the drama.
well what a stupid thing to do sorry but girls don't do the jealousy thing I had a similar situation the guy did it to me I just now think he is an idiot. all you can do is apologize and stop hanging wiv the other girl
What were you hoping she would do if you succeeded and she got jealous?
he honest, if she hurt you before that, and she what she says, give her time
how long have you been waiting before you apologized?
give her time she is probably upset and hurt and doesn't know where she stands anymore
My tried and true method is dick pics... gets the girls all the time, almost all of the time.
What you can do is taking things serious and not playing games.
nothing you can do you fucked up just move on
Lol wtf talk to her
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