So, I talk/flirt/text/call multiple girls all the time. I am single and not even dating any of them yet. My question is if its bad that I do this? So girls and guys tell me if you think its bad to do or if you do it?
If I started going out on dates with one of them then I would stop flirting with the other ones.
And I am not leading them on, we act like flirty friends. I would date some of them, but I just want to pick the one that would be the best for both of us. But I would still be friends with the others if I started to date one of them.
Just curious if girls do this and talk to multiple guys too, before they pick one?
- Yes, its badVote A
- No, its okVote B
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It's not too big a deal IF you aren't dating any of them, but once you start feeling committed to one, don't continue with all the others because she (obviously) wouldn't like it, and most likely the flirtees don't see it all that great either. But it's bad to be known as an over-flirt.
I had this friend who I was somewhat close to who flirted with nearly EVERY girl he started talking to / texting, including me (though he knew I had a boyfriend- also a friend of his) and all of us girls thought it was wrong. Even the guys noticed it too (probably because they wanted to get at some of the girls too lol) and didn't favor it too much.1