Is talking to multiple people while single okay to do?

[ayeayeron]

I don't know it kinda makes me feel bad when I have multiple people interested in me and I talk to them back to back.

[Chick001795]

I went throught this.
I honestly dont like when a guy tlks to multiple people at the same time especially when they say to you they hope to be your only one and that they really care about you, and they show a lot of interest in you. And especially when they say you aent like a lot of girls. Because that right their your leading her on and at the end she will get hurt when she does find out whatever you guys did between you too, that she wasn't the only one. That their are others.
As long as you dont lead any girl on and your honest with them.

[PecanPie]

If you're not dating anyone there's no problem talking to multiple people. If you're having sex with multiple people then you should let the people know that also. When sex is involved people have the right to know if they're not the only one you're with. If you're just talking that's fine. Talking to multiple people is ok because you're just getting to know them seperatly to see who you want to know better and who you see your self with.

[blackberrysoup]

I think your doing fine. The guilt is expected because if you were serious about one person you wouldn't want them talking to other people. Your not in a relationship, no one has asked to be in one with you. So you good. Just be open when it comes to sex. If someone is going to lay with you, then you got to be clear. "I am getting it from other people, need you to be cool about this."

[QooLipBite]

That's exactly how you do it when you're single.

Make sure all your options are rich and abundant. Charm all of them and decide which one has the most promise. They're most probably doing that too.

[Logorithim]

In the US, it's perfectly fine, and no one should feel bad if they do it. There are some societies, however, where it's not considered OK and creates a huge amount of jealousy.

[heartbeatsflowers]

As long as you don't make all of them fall for you or lead them on then decide you want this person instead. Just be clear to them.

Because many guys have done this to me and the next thing you know, I got feelings for them because they are saying all kinds of things to me... Then the next day, they dated someone. And it's like wtf? So just be careful not to lead someone if you're sure you don't like them in that way and if you found someone you really like. Less drama.

[MissLogical]

To a point it's okay. As long as the people don't think you're exclusive and you aren't trying to lead them on. Personally I wouldn't talk to multiple people at the same time.

[lexi1202]

Absolutely. Gotta experiment and see who fits you best and usually that means testing out and talking to multiple people 🤷🏽‍♀️ you do you and good luck :)

[shortdumbo]

Yea that's fine, just don't date all of them or lead all of them on

[loveslongnails]

Anything is ok to do if you're not in a mutually committed relationship, just be prepared to deal with the consequences, real or perceived.

[readywriter]

How else are you going to taste all the flavors and find the best match ofr you. Just be sure no one thinks you are theirs.

[broseph_stalin]

Of course. It's a lot more efficient than talking to just one "candidate" at a time.

[hannah0305]

Its totally fine. Talk to people and have fun until you decide that you prefer some over the rest, then maybe you would like to narrow down the number of people you talk to.

[whoisdp]

Bruh, expand your dating circle. Too young to be tied down if she's not the one move on!

[Philyouup]

Why would it be an issue? are you dating? are you exclusive?

[Garytheusername2]

Just don't lead them on or date multiple at a time

[Partywithtom]

You're single. I make it very clear from the start

[Hopelessliar]

Yes. Until the exclusivity talk.

[BOUNTYGUY9]

talk to any one you want

[Hannajenky]

Sure why not

[lilmissumshine]

Why wouldn't it be?

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yeah

[Nice222]

Sure it is ok.

[Anonymous]

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