I gave this girl my number but she never called :(

so for Christmas I got this girl at school some chocolates and put my number inside (so stupid lol), but I got really disappointed when I didn't get a call or even a text. she is really shy so did she not text me because she was nervous to or is she simply not interested? thanks


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I would normally agree that gifts are best after you guys are an item BUT my friend's brother, whom I have a huge crush on, finally took a step my way and made me a funky Christmas tree out of random lights and wires and I found it really sweet and it definitely helps to have actions rather than words speak out. Plus they were just chocolates, sweet but not over the top! Good move! Now about the number, I would say contact her via chat (do you have each others' Skype or fb...?) or just wait until you see her again and suggest you two go out. Really, it's the only way to find out! Even if she says yes out of courtesy, you'll know if something is there if you guys spend some time together! :) Will you see her soon or do you have to wait till after the holidays? I gotta wait till after the holidays to thank my crush and it's driving me nuts LOL

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What Girls Said 19

  • Could be that she was shy, could be that she wasn't interested, could be that she lost it, could be that...

    Try to look for signs that she may be into you: flirting, a lot of eyecontact, smiling a lot, ...

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  • It's really sweet of you, but I think she's not interested (in you or in dating in general).

    Doesn't matter if she's shy or not.. don't wait along. Isn't really nice of her not to call, but I guess she doesn't want to lead you on (which is good).

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  • That is adorable! I suppose she could be shy. You might want to give it one more shot, but I'd say most likely she's not interested.

    I'm sorry. That was really a sweet thing to do! I would have called!

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  • Too hard to say but some people are still too shy even after someone has gone through all that trouble to tell them that they like them. I say keep trying until she actually says something about it. Ask her out next time in person so she has no choice but to give you a yes or no answer. Then you will know for sure.

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  • My current boyfriend did that on Valentine's day but I never got the message. lol I found out years later. I think she is just shy, also, a lot of girls don't like the make the first step in communication..especially if she is shy!

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  • She probably does not want to make the first move. You should ask her for her phone number and make the first move. Giving a girl chocolates doesn't mean anything. Most girls are still old skool and like to be chased or she is simply shy. it might be out of her comfort zone to talk to males.

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  • If I liked the guy I would of called.

    Although I like it when guys will ask for my # instead of me doing the calling.

    But who knows.. if it was me and you did that for me and I did not call you back then I wasn't interested.

    But that really was sweet of you. You shouldn't try to bribe her though with chocolate because I may have called just to be nice. And you don't want that.

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  • Do you know her or are you some random guy giving her chocolates?

    This is necessary information.

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  • You are SO cute! I think that was really sweet! The only way you'll know what she thought is to muster up the courage to ask her if she got it and let her know she is special to you.

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  • i would say she's not interested

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  • She wasn't intersected but don't worry there are plenty of girls and I once asked out this shy guy and he said no so just because shy doesn't mean anything but maybe she was shy to text you both can be true you never know

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  • 1 that's sweet wish it were me 2 she probably was just shocked you gave her number and wondering if she could call 3 you never know your a sweet guy hope it works out

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  • Shy or not, that's no way to treat someone that just gave you a chocolate or present. You know what? Just give it a couple of days if she's shy... but that's all.

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  • Probably not interested.

    Sorry. : /

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  • Not interested

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  • dDizzie explained it really well.

    If a girl is shy, giving her your number is useless. She won't text you first. You should have gotten her number instead.

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  • I'm going with not interested because you made it obvious you're into her and even shy people can tell you're not going to reject her

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  • yikes, did you guys talk/were friends before that? If not then should could have been a little freaked out...

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  • She isn't interested.

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What Guys Said 7

  • First off you don't give gifts to girls you want to date. Only give gifts to girlfriends.

    Second, you're supposed to take the lead, not her. So don't expect her to text you. It's your job to get the number and text. Plus you said she's shy, shy girls don't send out first texts!

    Good luck trying to save this!

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  • I'm sorry to say, she was only interested in the chocolate. And that's 10 seconds after realizing that was her gift. Never put THAT MUCH effort into a girl unless you're sure you have her attention.

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  • that's a little too forward, in my opinion. especially since you two aren't dating.

    is this girl someone you've been hanging out with for a bit? do you see each other often? Do you flirt with each other and talk a lot?

    instead of giving her chocolates with your number, why not just give her your cool personality and take (or exchange) her number instead? giving girls gifts too early is a sign of insecurity and neediness...like you are trying to make up for your lack of confidence.

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  • This is different from every answer here, but where exactly did you put your number in the box? Maybe she just missed it.

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  • It happens, welcome to life. Don't get tore up about it.

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  • Shy my white hairy butt they all say their shy, until the good looking jerk comes along and its oh hi how are you wanna hang out some time. Either A) She's doing that 3 day rule or B) She doesn't like you or C)

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  • well like you said she might be a little shy or if you already have her number (you never specified) then she might want you to start the conversation (but I will assume you don't) anyway chances are she just hasn't had time or is too shy, its hard to tell because we don't know the relationship between you and the girl, if you could provide some more details such as if you flirt, if your already friends and such then it would be easier to answer but from what I can gather it could be either.

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    • no I don't have her number we seem to flirt and get on well but we don't see each other that often

    • find ways to see each other, after a while you will know if she likes you just by the way she acts (look at the reply for a few signs) and if you get a few ask her to hang out or something (something she enjoys of course) and she might give you her number or text you (and inadvertently give you her number) for example I gave this girl my number she didn't use it for a month but when she did we started texting all the time and then we got in a relation ship, so just wait these things take time

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