I met this guy 2 weeks ago. All three dates went very well. He was very romantic, attentive and told me he likes me. A true gentleman and didn't kiss till third date. Lots of kissing and making out on third date. He then went on a business trip last Friday (told me 4 days) and that he will email me while away. After he "came back" Tuesday I saw that he went back on to the online dating site. I think he also saw me online, then emailed me a nice, sweet, teasing email but didn't say when he will be back or when we will meet again. But did say hope to see me really soon.
I am the first girl he took out from online dating, so I am wondering if he wants to see what else is out there since he is old fashion and if anything the next date would mean we would take it to the next step (be it exclusivity or sex) and if he that felt it went too smoothly and/or too quickly.
I did email him back with a simple and cute email, but not demanding.
Any suggestions would be great. Thank you.
- He is no longer interested, move on.Vote A
- He is checking out other options. Let him alone, he will come back.Vote B
- He is checking out other options. He is gone.Vote C
- A and CVote D
Thank you all for your help.
Most Helpful Girl
I think he's interested, especially since he sent you a message after he has been seeing you. He's probably just busy. I think he wants to take things slow and get you know you in the proper way before he makes you his girl.
I would play it cool, definitely don't get demanding or try to rush him into a relationship. I think if you play your cards right, this guy is going to be yours.
So, while he is busy, keep yourself busy. When he wants to see you again, he will contact you. Put up some new pictures. Maybe of you doing something you like to do. That will peak his attention.
He's going to see how interesting you are, and how if he isn't careful, another guy will be able to snatch you up. Don't be afraid to meet other guys during this time either.
You aren't his girlfriend yet, take full advantage of that. This will help make you feel confident. Even if he ends up not contacting you, you aren't wasting your time. You don't owe this guy anything. He is not your boyfriend yet.