My boyfriend of one year admitted to me (after some prodding) that before we got into a relationship, he considered dating a flirty mutual friend who is known for (and is open about) sleeping around with guys including married men. He never had a girlfriend before and always said he had high standards for girls. That made me feel so special. Then he goes and admits this.
How can a guy with supposedly high standards even consider date a promiscuous girl?
Why do guys give such girls a chance, knowing that they will very likely hurt him?
I understand the situation better now and it will all help me move on. The past is past.
Special thanks to thomasmore (yes, my boyfriend has always said he's so lucky I gave him a chance), siobhan85, kheserthorpe, and Anonymous User. :)
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A: he considered it, he didn't go through with it. How can he consider it? Because he was losing his mind from sexual frustration?
B: contrary to what women seem to think, promiscuous girls are not 'easy' for guys to get. For some guys, they are very easy. For most guys, its easier to get a relationship with a non-promiscuous girl then get anywhere with a promiscuous ones.
A huge number of guys have what you consider 'low standards', so promiscuous girls can actually be pretty selective when they're young assuming they are decent looking.
I'm not sure why you say she'd be 'very likely to hurt him'. It sounds like in the short term she'd be 'very likely to make him feel desired wanted and satisfied'. In the long run, who knows, most relationships don't work in the long run.0