I hate jerks, I've been hurt a lot. I've ignored nice guys and even had nice guys as friends. They would say that they wait for a girl to tell them if they like them. I was so shocked I was like really? He said yeah if she liked me then I would wait for her to let me know then take it from there.
I guess I made the assumption all guys are assertive and are hunters when it comes to dating girls. Recently I've met a guy who is so lovely, melts my heart how sweet and endearing it is. Usually I'm put off by nice guys, but he would be the guy any girl would love to marry. Caring, sweet, genuine, thoughtful, makes you feel like your the only girl in the room. An he's also good looking.
The guys who go after me the wasters and jerks who ask for my number. Never take me out and just want sex make me sick now. Can't believe I ever dated two jerks. I've certainly grown up and ii don't find bad boys thrilling just a waste of time and lots of pain.
This guy is also sensitive , what I say actually affects him and its pretty cute that he cares. I've never met a guy like him. I really want to date him. He smiles at me, teases me, laughs at me, asks me how I am all the time. He doesn't even look down my chest or look at boobs. Not saying he hasn't checked me out but I can tell he's about more then getting the booty. That's a quality guy to me.
I get called beautiful a lot, and get a lot of attention. I've smiled at this guy , spoke to him etc. I don't think he gets that I like him. I turn up at his work just so I can talk to him, but I think he reckons he don't have a chance. I'm quite shy, and he's not really shy but is not assertive so I don't know what to do. Should I just give him my number and give him the chance to take the lead. I don't want him to think I'm being the leader or not allowing him to pursue.
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All you have control over is your own behaviour. It sounds like he probably isn't going to make a move, so either you show interest or move on.
I have no problem approaching and asking out women, however, sometimes women would show interest in me and pursue me instead. It isn't such a bad thing, you just seem to be making excuses because you're shy.1
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