I know this is a really dick question but I don't want to hurt her. So there's this girl I know and she recently became single. I also knew that she liked me but the feeling wasn't mutual.
We were on a night out together with a few friends down the pub. I had a few to drink and things escalated quickly, within the space of like 20 minutes we started making out and went back to hers. When, during the middle of sex, she said she wanted us to date I agreed; partially because I didn't want the sex stop, partially because I was drunk, but also because I didn't want to reject her.
The next morning I left and we continued speaking. She now want's us to date and due to feeling guilty I've agreed to take her out in the near future (nothing actually arranged though). I know that everything I've done has been stupid and selfish, so you don't need to tell me.
I just really need advice on how to let her down without hurting her (and hopefully without coming off as a complete prick). At this point I'm not above lying to save her feelings.
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Too late now.
Do the right thing.
Date her. Marry her. Have a few kids together. All their names should start with the same first letter, it'll be adorable. Buy a golden retriever, they're great loyal family dogs. As far as what to drive, I'd recommend a truck for you, and an SUV with a high crash test rating for the missus. Make sure you take some finance classes in university because it's going to cost a pretty penny to send three kids to good engineering schools. Oh yeah, steer them in the engineering direction from a young age. You don't want them going and getting some lame ass degree in "liberal studies". And one last thing, if your son ever comes to you talking about how he accidentally lead a girl on doesn't know how to let her down, you'll be able to tell him to man up and stop being a pussy or he'll end up in an unhappy relationship like you.8
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