How do I let a girl down gently after sleeping with her? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2014-04-24T01:52:32Z

I know this is a really dick question but I don't want to hurt her. So there's this girl I know and she recently became single. I also knew that she liked me but the feeling wasn't mutual. We were on a night out together with a few friends down the pub. I had a few to drink and things escalated quickly, within the space of like 20 minutes we started making out and went back to hers. When, during the middle of sex, she said she wanted us to date I agreed; partially because I didn't want the sex stop, partially because I was drunk, but also because I didn't want to reject her. The next morning I left and we continued speaking. She now want's us to date and due to feeling guilty I've agreed to take her out in the near future (nothing actually arranged though). I know that everything I've done has been stupid and selfish, so you don't need to tell me. I just really need advice on how to let her down without hurting her (and hopefully without coming off as a complete prick). At this point I'm not above lying to save her feelings.

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emerald77 Follow
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tell her that she is great, but that you're not looking for anyone right now.

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Just be real. And just cause she thinks you're cute doesn't mean she likes you

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Anonymous
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She is going to stab you to death. Just FYI.

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- miracleiris
  
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  Kinda hope she does
  
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"sorry i'm not yer type" maybe? 8)

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Anonymous
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Tell her she is a cunt

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- Opinion Owner
  
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  And just because she thinks you're cute doesn't mean she likes you
  
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- Anonymous Asker
  
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  The co-worker told me she's way into me. I'm not feeling the same way
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Ohhh why not
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Does she show interest in you?
  
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- Anonymous Asker
  
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  I barely knew her, I just don't find her that attractive
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Awhhhh. Does she show interest? Did you ever show her any friendless that made her like you
  
  But to answer your question just ignore her
  
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- Anonymous Asker
  
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  I am nice to her yes, but I didn't flirt.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Just ignore her...
  
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Just let it fizzle.

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