Recently I have mentioned that me and my stepfamily have been on not so good terms lately. My sister and her boyfriend constantly joke about me having smaller genitals even though that's none of their business if I do or don't. But yesterday my stepmother made it personal by letting my sister rat on me because I got a soda from their fridge. They said I had a sucky ass job, but yet they end up charging me 100 dollars a fortnight to stay here. So in the end I only have anywhere from 20 to 50 dollars for myself.
I'm the only one in the house with a license besides my parents, but they don't force or push their 22 and 20 year old kids to get their license. My grandparents who raised me made me get mine at 18. They complain I was raised better then they were because my grandparents favored me over them. And her mom and dad favored her brothers and their granddaughter over her. If my siblings have to run errands or go to the store I have to take them, but If I have to do anything I have to wait till they have to do something or work. I can't take the car in my own time even though I'm a licensed adult. I'm helping to pay for that car after the van they sold me for 600 bucks transmission went out of it after a month, but yet sold a better car for $2000 to my sister and her boyfriend which is still running today.
My sister and her boyfriend had The van for a while until they decided they didn't want it. Then I was sold the van which started going bad when I got it. But they all said their was no problem with it until I got it. I only had it a month until I had to junk it. They bought cars off my grandparents too, but they would soon end up not running anymore or sold. Plus they asked for a loan for thousands of dollars years ago and never paid it back. They also never call my grandfather to wish him happy birthday or Merry Christmas. In fact they don't even call him unless they want something. My grandparents even signed over their house to me and him. Which he has no desire to fix it up or more less use it.
So tell me, who do they think they are? They get mad at me for buying one bag of m&ms with the money I made working, but yet they constantly buy chips and other junk which I can't have unless asking for my 22, 20,and 13 year old siblings which they can have whenever. They never have to ask, so why should I when I'm their sibling and stepson as well? Are they jealous I was treated better growing up? Or is it they just don't want anything to do with me unless it benefits them? My grandparents adopted me after my biological dad and biological mom signed their rights away. They said my dad wanted me but was afraid to take me away from my grandparents.
I see that as an excuse that they didn't want to raise me. Yet I'm about to be an uncle and my sister said she doesn't trust me with potentially babysitting him. I worked three years in a daycare centre so I should know a little about baby care. So, I guess it's time for me to leave and say to hell with them, let somebody else take care of their business. If they don't want me here or just want me here for their convenience instead of love or caring why don't they just say so. I guess actions do speak louder than words.
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