Discuss.
That's correct, discuss, don't lecture. Communication is key, especially when a topic is as important as this one. Follow this loose guideline, and your conversation should go (fairly) smoothly:
Begin by asking where he got the cigarettes. Don't threaten to call your mother or you'll never get an honest answer.
Ask your brother what he found so appealing about the cigarettes. Was it peer pressure? The desire to look cool? Take what your son or daughter says and express your own point of view about the matter.
Explain how you don't want him to take time off of his life by smoking, and how you love him and don't want him to smoke.
Good luck.
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I have a big brother too and i experienced that many many times. He lied about quit smoking and he told me not to tell our parents which i didn't. And from that moment we became close and he always tell everything because he trusted me. But as a good little sister i have to keep on reminding him always about the bad effects of smoking even it is his own choices..
My brother was influenced by his friends. And its hard to stop once you started smoking. May be you should ask him or something if you really want to know the reason why he smokes. May be he's stressed or something.. I suggest you to ask him and be more caring to him. Make him think that you're trustworthy
My own middle sibling began this same beguine of Smoking at the age of 13. I never told mom and dad, kept it to myself, for no matter what you Might say or even do, they will go ahead behind your back any way to have their... Own way.
Many teens start early with this dirty habit but as they get older, they will be eating their words of finding it cool because in the end, my friend, they learn Then that it is detrimental to their health and the sure signs sure do show.
Good luck. xx
His life his choice... blah blah blah. No. What you need to do is get a picture of the cigs and a secret voice recording of him confessing. Tell him that you love him and he needs to stop because honestly he's only damaging his body. Smoking has zero benefits. If he says no, tell him you'll tell your parents. If he says you have no proof, you do. Tell him where its at and that you need something from him (money, faors, etc. Nothing too vile). And if he tries to fight you for the evidence you "lose" (on purpose). What he doesn't know is that you secretly have it backed up in the cloud or your computer and you tell your parents.
Well honestly its not up to you, if he wants to smoke then he is going to inevitably end up smoking. You can state your discomfort with him smoking, you can tell your parents and let them handle it. But ultimately it isn't your choice he is his own person
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Clearly he doesn't care about his health and he doesn't care about your warnings, so only your parents can fix this.
You really can't do anything other than talk to him. Everyone knows how bad smoking is, yet there are still people who continue to do it.
The only way he is going to stop is if he wants to stop.
It really is silly, because every person I talk to says they would love to quit and hate smoking. But they are addicted to it.dont yell at him or anything.. just hand him the cigarettes and go silent.. totally silent..
yeah it sucks but you can´t do anything about it. maybe your parents manage to stop him from it untill he moves out but he´ll do it then. some people just ignore how much they damage their body with it.
In this situation, I recommend black mail. Might as well make some money from his stupidity.
A teenager experimenting with smoking... hm... first time I'm hearing sth like that LOL It's his life and his choices.
Tell on him.
I am glad my brother told on me to my parents. Thank god I got caught before I became an addict.Tell your parents and have them sort it out. It's not your job to raise him.
what can you do? nothing because its his choice
Mind your own business. It's his choice if he wants to smoke, you don't control him.
buy him some weed instead, cigarettes are gross..
Nothing. Dude has to make his own choices in life.
at least he won't get high off them.
What kind of smoke treats were they?
Leave him alone... Duh.
not your fucking business, haha,.
You stay out of it.
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