Have you ever felt instant attraction to someone?

[LaFemmeFatale]

I have a girl friend, we became friends at first sight and usually I am very picky about friends but It was something about her screaming that she was trustworthy.
And I was right, we have been friends for 3 years now. Do you feel that way sometimes? How often?

[Darlynne]

More like people have felt instant attraction towards me. I put on a very apathetic attitude, and for some reason, it attracts all of the outgoing and friendly people. I've had multiple times when people have sat next to me and just spilled out their whole life story to me because they had the intuition that I would be a good and trustworthy friend.

Needless to say, I became very good friends with one of them for 5 years and am currently dating the other for 3.

[Tonga]

imediate attraction to someone... and he's still my crush after 2 years, and the biggest crush I've had in all 7 now he's number 8 >.<... but it also comes with a weird new attraction since im so young we r both inexperianced in hadling bad situations

[SweedyPie]

Not very ofen tbh lol but this girl just like with your experience, seemed like such a genuinely good person we have been good friends since last year Sept and the more we know of each other, the more we agree we could have been twins lol

[Anonymous]

It rarely happens, but when it does it can be exciting and scary at the same time.

And by scary, I mean that you might catch yourself thinking about them a lot and worrying about losing them in the back of your mind, even if you act cool around them. If that makes any sense?

[LaFemmeFatale]

Yep It makes sense :)

[Opinion Owner]

The last time I had this happen, I got rebounded and it was tough to get over even though I took it slow.

[Opinion Owner]

While you shouldn't project bad experiences in the past onto new people, it is also important to keep your heart guarded because you don't really know a person and their intention until you get to know them overtime.

[TheDictator]

Tu me ressembles, tu es mon ami.
Tu ne me ressembles pas, alors je préfère garder mes distances.
Ca vaut pour ce qui est à l'intérieur, comme pour ce qui se voit tout de suite à l'extérieur.

[Sjeggy]

yes i do feel that sometimes where i get the feeling that i can trust that person, i have some examples :P

[LaFemmeFatale]

Haha like tell me one? :P

[Sjeggy]

haha was it that obvious? ;)

[LaFemmeFatale]

Ahahaha I mean friendly attraction

[Sjeggy]

of course? so do i?
i don't know you well enough to be romantically interested xD

[LaFemmeFatale]

What?
You mean that 1 hour is not long enough? Gosh
XD
Jk

[Sjeggy]

"i thought we had something" xD

[ADFSDF1996]

Us men are capable of feeling instant attraction for someone. Whenever I see a beautiful woman in the street, I feel attraction for her. This is why men always check out random women.

[TheDictator]

It's only physical attraction.

[JiminsHoe]

Too many times, but instant attraction is more of lust than love.

[heyitsjenns]

Yeahh. Sometimes it just clicks. It's what some people call fate.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Oh please, please, stop all the admiration for me.
Ah, hmm well no, i don't warm up to people quickly. I mean i do but i never show who i am much often.

[CyberToothTiger]

Yes, i do feel instant attraction to a girl. It can be her kind personality that
sets my heart pitter pattering.

[likitb4istickit]

Only when I want to fuck them. I don't get out much anymore but when I do probably every few minutes (I live in a city so about 5% of females sparks the instant attraction thing).

[Whatupyall123]

It can happen, not very often but it does. Usually it takes a while, and then it happens all of a sudden. And if it is instant, it is only ever sexual/physical.

[matheus_mb]

Yeah I have, if you mean only physical attraction.

[LaFemmeFatale]

Not only, I mean friendly attraction, when you feel you can trust them

[matheus_mb]

Not completely then. It kinda happened with the last girl I asked out, but I never trust too much before I actually know the person, so it never happens completely and I don't think it ever will.

[scooogy]

In what way in particular?

[LaFemmeFatale]

Friendly or romantical?

[scooogy]

I once had that about a girl's smile

[YaBaba]

nope, I don't let that happen

[AlphaMale1]

Daily lol

[JazzyGirl18]

Yes, but I believe that is called lust, not love.

[TatyanaTheEmpress]

Just a few times.

[archiz]

sometimes yea ^^

[babeeeone]

It's happened

[Yumix]

yup, happened

[bcromartie]

#3yearsforlife