This is going to be the first time I have ever been to the bar. I am 20 years old, but I have decided I won't be chicken anymore and I am going to go with one of my girlfriends. I do not know what to wear though. I do not want to come across as being slutty. I don't really like dresses either, and I don't really have any dresses. I am 120-125lbs and 5'8". I have dirty blonde hair that is quite short. I am going to the city, so I can pick something out. Is there any outfit that you can suggest that would look great on me. I am reserved person (unlike my friend :( ), but I want to feel attractive too. By the way, I am not going there to pick up guys. I am going with my friend, if a nice guy happens to be there then great ( since I have never had a relationship.) But that is wishful thinking . . . lol. I just want to look great and have fun (if that is possible) If you can't answer this question without a picture I will include a link, but otherwise I would like you to just tell me what you think without a picture. Thanks a lot, I am really nervous!
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No need to be so nervous! Everybody in a bar is there to have fun and maybe meet somebody to flirt with. I suggest you wear a nice pair of skinny jeans that will show off you figure without revealing too much skin, as you say you don't like dresses. Then wear a really nice top with some embellishment or made out of a nice lace or satin. Pick a colour that will suit your hair. Bright and jewel colours are great with a darkish blonde so maybe a purple/pink/teal green?
Don't forget the little bits like groomed and cleaned hair, nails, teeth, make-up and a nice bag with shoes and perhaps a necklace.
The key is to let the real you shine through. I wore black flat ballet style pumps with black tights and a t-shirt dress and minimum make-up except a slick of black eyeliner to the last club. Everyone else wore heels and no tights and lots of make-up but I felt comfortable so it worked for me! I got hit on by more guys than I have in a long time that night and I am average looking. If you treat the night like just fun dressing up with a friend then you can't go wrong. Remember creative dressing is encouraged during the night and plus the soft lighting and dark dance floors make these places very forgiving. Good luck!4
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