My style of dressing is punk. I wear band shirts, tight jeans and my docs. (I have them in red black blue green) and I love them but my guy friends say that the way I dress intimidates guys and that's why "normal" looking guys won't ask me out, which I think is stupid and don't want to change my style. So are guys cool with a girl dressing like this or do they prefer the whole Barbie look
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I'm kind of shocked that someone who dresses so free is concerned with what people think. but umm, to answer the question, the vast majority of guys do prefer the more natural girls. then again, the vast majority of girls don't dress edgy;punk. it's unique.
You shouldn't have to change your style, it's you. Unless you started dressing that way to attract a certain kind, in which case, I think you should do some soul searching and find out who you are and portray that in your style ;) Your friend is right, you do scare off the normal guys because combat boots screams something along the lines of "hard. mean. NOT easy. I'm not gonna get laid. if I even survive" haha. seriously. Plus like I mentioned, most guys prefer their girls to be a bit more nude-faced, and I assume with your look you've got the make-up to match
So bottom line, don't change who you are to ever attract someone. Because if you change it, and attract someone, they're not really attracted to YOU. they're attracted to this style you're falsely portraying. Be true to yourself, a guy who's equally edgy will find you and think you're perfect1