My boyfriend wants to get gauges but I really don't want him to. He gets mad every time I say that, but I don't think its a good idea, I think they look trashy, and I just don't like them. what do I doooo
I agree with you, in that I don't think they look good, but after initially telling him in a calm way the reasons you have for not wanting him to get them, there's nothing else you can do. He is his own person, and he will resent you for keeping him from doing things he wants to. If you explain your side and he decides not to, that's his decision. If he decides to go ahead and get them, that's also up to him. If you like him, support him either way. If it's a deal breaker, then separate and find a guy who doesn't want gauges.
Honestly it's his body.. you can voice your opinion on them (in a nice way..) but ultimately it's his choice and don't fight him on it. I wouldn't bring it up any more you said what you had to say so leave it be, especially if every time it starts an argument between you both.