A Bit of a rant based on some the answers to previous questions I posted here and my own observations and learnings about shy girls who may have a crush :
I've learned about a shy girl who might have a crush on me - and I like her-
Might not look at me , matter of fact she might turn away from me and face her back to me and
If she does look at me it will be little glances that I probably won't catch.
She might stand near me with her friends at any point but NONE of them will say hello. Just kind of bump me a little and stand barely hands witdth away. And probably expect or hope I will just launch into a conversation.
She might smile a lot and laugh with said friends just so I pick up on any " positive vibe" thus showing she is a DTE, friendly and fun girl but won't smile at ME.
This girl might flick her hair around and even stand there and mess it up to go with my punk/rocker type of look , tie it in a ponytail after she does look at me ( supposedly a sign of interest)
wear a bit of make up where her friends don't really at all.
She talks in a high pitch / squeaky voice around me but still won't say hi and respond to a friend's comment with a loud " wwwwhhhoooaaaa ! " to seemingly get my attention
AND
-To top it off - I said hi to her once we have a brief chat only for her to never say anything since but implement a combo of the above . Of course I take this as rejection and am devastated only to be told shy girls go weird around there crush so , I am told to mend my broken heart because she has probably gone really shy because *I* acknowledged her and I should not take this as rejection because she implements some or all of the following ! Believe it or not but it hasn't been that easy to turn my mind set because I was DEVASTATED that she seemingly rejected me. I blamed myself for everything , wrong approach , wrong timing , wrong words and been ugly.
So in the end it seems *I* am supposed to put this all together and have it click that she has a crush on me from all these subtle and near non-existent hints !!
Is this for real?
Am I an idiot?
How do some people even get together in these instances ?
It's just me compared to them numbering four - ten at anyone time including the girl I like. total doom...
P.S. I REALLY DO HOPE I GET TO KNOW AND END UP TOGETHER WITH HER !
Just the frustration , I needed a mytake.
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